Marriage

Marriage

             Marriages are made in heaven and celebrate on earth. The other version of the same saying says, "marriages are made in heaven but the maintenance is done on earth" well both are very true in their own essence.  
             There is a huge transition when one gets married, the whole life changes, every thing changes, from being a single person, here no more life of one after marriage, every thing is always for two and after few years more then two. 
             There are advantages and disadvantages of both, remaining single and getting married, lets compare both the forms of life 
             As one gets married, we start a whole new family, a complete shift from individualism, no more freedom and no more independence, all that is now translated into family and interdependence. One gets lots of responsibilities to fulfill as a couple, life of single person is one with lot of freedom; wherever they want to go, whatever they want to do they can do. They are flying in air like a bird fulfilling their all wishes and got happiness in doing stupid things. On the other hand married person have more and more responsibilities, they can't do what they want. They are like a bird whose wings are cut off. They also some time not able to fulfill their simple wishes as well; unless what ever they do they don't have any sense of happiness, but again it all depends on what kind of spouse one gets, couples can be extremely happy after marriage or may be full of discords as khalil jibran said "Marriage is either life or death, there is no between and betwixt" overall the first major difference between single and married life is a trasfer from independence to interdependence.