Love's Many Forms

In this life, there is only one happiness: to love and be loved. Love can take so many faces. There is always appropriate love for everyone. Most of us can only experience three or four faces of love other people might experience more than what is expected. In order to fully understand what love is, we should always pay attention to these details.

 Love has its own gravity among others. An experience of one form of love will lead more likely to another form.

LOVE FOR ONESELF

Any love focused on oneself, whether good or ill, is considered self-love.

Good self-love is with a healthy sense of loving oneself feels adequate about their personal success, traits, and significance in the world, which is related to self-confidence. As admirable as self-love appears to be, it is also seen in the growing number of people who raise themselves above others.

It is said, we can only give love to others if we love ourselves first.

We cannot share the love with others if we do not have love in our system.

A conceited sense of self-love breeds overconfidence in one's abilities, status, and attributes. Self-love manifests itself in the modern-day called Narcissus who loves himself a little too much in this world of rampant materialism and greater pressure to present the best image of oneself. Egoistic people's greed becomes their demise when they fail to perceive themselves in a just and truthful light that everything has a limit.

They strive to achieve something out of their reach, and they often lead to something against man's law and God's.

Healthy self-love will lead to family's. We cannot love other people outside of our own portals without loving our loved ones first. Loving and honoring our parents is the first requirement to become an honorable child.

LOVE FOR THE FAMILY

Familial love is characterized as parental love. It is a selfless love to the members of the family. It also refers to the fondness people have for others with whom they are familiar or reliant, regardless of biological links or personal characteristics. Maybe you've met acquaintances who appeared to have nothing in common but were as close as family. The majority of freshly formed love partnerships incorrectly predict the onset of parental love. These partnerships break down under pressure once passionate desire and goodwill love steadiness are gone.

Nowadays, people can confide in strangers and strangers become friends and friends become family. Because of closeness, some of their relationships will lead to romantic ones. That's why there are friends who become lovers for a lifetime.

PASSIONATE LOVE

The modern notion of love has molded into this automatic imaging of an intense whirlwind romance for the majority of us. People refer to passionate love as the sexual kind of love, but it has evolved into the fundamental human drive to reproduce with people who are attractive. This kind of love, as euphoric as it is, rarely lasts because it lacks the maturity of philia and the familiarity of familial love.

The advent of technology is one of the causes of the emergent of this fiery relationship. People are just one text or chat away to have this so-called love.This love is also influenced with the peer group or circle of friends. Sometimes is the match and catch thing that adds to the table.

This love is frequently a whirlwind romance that may not survive since one or both partners lack the maturity that genuine love, trust, and understanding require.

LOVE FOR FRIENDS

What passionate love needs are maturity and security, affection for friends makes up for it. It is only natural that we explain this love in terms of friendship because it stems from mutual benefit. Friends in this type of connection frequently discover a deeper meaning in life by giving each other advice, confronting one another when the other does something wrong or has a character fault, and showing real concern for the other's well-being.

As a result, some of the strongest romantic relationships emerge from close friendships in which the lovers have become accustomed to communicating with one another and mutually benefiting from one another. Consequently, those in such partnerships have fewer difficulties growing and strengthening their new love relationship.

There are still cultures around the globe that never envisioned love out of romance and affection. People chose a more free, empirical, and realistic love. That is why another face of love comes in.

SENSIBLE LOVE

Arranged marriages are becoming less common as more people throughout the world become concerned about their freedom of choice and choice in marriage and love. While the newer generations find it impossible to love a complete stranger, the elder generations knew the only pragmatic form of love.

The continuation of "strictly business" political or celebrity marriages might be attributed to factors such as similar aims and alleged compatibility. This type of love can be shown in relationships that are formed out of responsibility rather than the personal choice of companion.

Since passion is sometimes off in this type of love, the other or both parties might be often attracted to someone they feel passionate about. That is why this type of love could not last longer than it seems.

A whirlwind romance and arranged marriages will often lead to a serious outside marriage affair. Parties lack genuine love and romantic endevours. Thus, automatically the sexual attraction that bonds the love is faded into thin air.

Do you remember a meaningless flirtation or a casual relationship? This another face of love that follows.

UNCERTAIN LOVE

This is the love without attachment as they say.

In today's world, it is common for a relationship to go awry when one person confuses the fleeting, no-strings-attached with the intense, long-term passionate love. This type of relationship works best when both people involved are mature, self-sufficient, and completely aware of where the relationship stands, despite the fact that it is not complicated and uncommitted.

When people understand the sense of life, they can also understand the deep sense of love. That love is not only physical or sexual attraction. It is not only about money nor for fame's sake but it is more unconditional and selfless.

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE

This is the love that is not based on familiarity, filiation, or physical attraction. Unconditional love is defined as an unselfish concern for the living beings and environment around us, similar to Christian love and compassion. It is the desire of the magnanimous human being to help others in need without expecting anything in return.

Unconditional love blossoms from the true kindness that anyone can feel for vast groups of people, animals, or nonliving things when viewed in a broader context.

This love immense from the superior being. God is the source of love and it is the highest form of love.

LOVE OF GOD

All the good things we perceived in this vast world are given to us by our loving God the source of everything. His love for us is greater than anything that He sacrificed and laid His life to the cross to save the mankind. There is no greater love than God's love for His children, so we need to love him above all. Because without Him, we are nothing but a speck of a dust swirling from nowhere.

The love of God is all we need to attain the healthy love for oneself and for others.

Love is undefineable as it seems but the love of God is its real definition.

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Thanks for your time reading my article my friends.

I hope you've learned from this.

Lovelots,

Soledad💕💕💕