Allah Almighty has placed virtues and abilities in every human being. There must be some kind of perfection and goodness in everyone. Now it is the responsibility of man to find it, to strive for it and to believe in himself. And it is also a fact that every person in the world He wants to be a successful person in the future. May success and prosperity and exaltation be his destiny and may good fortune be upon him. May he have greatness, height and comfort, may he be an honorable citizen in society, may he have position and position, and may people look at him with envy in knowledge, grace, intellect, intelligence and understanding. That's how we want our children to be great leaders. It is a natural thing that everyone desires and desires these things, but this status and honor and dignity is given to those who believe in destiny and work hard for it. Builds self-confidence; Because it is a law of nature that if you have any ability, it cannot last long. Our talent soon becomes visible to those around us, not necessarily conscious, but people still can't live without being influenced by the talent of others.
Consider that a person who has the ability to teach, who is a born teacher, never gets tired of his work. Whether it is day or night, he continues this work with joy and enthusiasm, which you observe day and night. You too should look for a job in yourself and in your children that you and your work will do. The child should have a lot of fun, happiness, contentment and tranquility, no boredom, boredom and fatigue at all. The important thing is that children should not be stressed so much for good performance in studies. Because of this pressure, they can suffer psychological and social problems. If you want your children's future to be brighter and successful and become good people in our society, then we have the following I have to adhere to ten principles permanently:
1: Build self-confidence
Self-confidence is a symbol of success and the first step to prosperity. Dreaming of a destination without self-confidence and hoping to achieve a goal is tantamount to dreaming like a madman.
2: Testing abilities
It is important to test the abilities of children to find out if they have any mental or other illness or if they are not experiencing psychological or social problems.
3: Testing passion
Highlight the child's hobbies and abilities
Whether it's a sport or an art form, encouraging children from an early age to take an interest in a hobby can be useful for them in the future. But at the same time, nothing should be forced on them.
4: Mental and psychological needs
Understand your child's mental and psychological needs, curiosity is the most important thing to learn anything. Children ask a lot of questions before school starts and many times it is possible that your patience will be overwhelmed while answering them but it is important for their development.
5: Consultation with the teacher
Talk to the teacher about the child's needs. Intelligent children often need more difficult questions to increase their mental development and for this they need more help. It is important to consult with teachers about this.
6: Don't be afraid of mistakes
Mistakes and failures are the key to success in the future and they are also important for learning, don't panic. Mistakes should be taken as an opportunity. So that children can learn from them and perform better in the future.
7: Punctuality
It is a matter of principle that those who value time, then time also values them; Because every moment of life is measured in the threshold of time, no moment can come back. In the same way, this golden age of childhood will never come back. If we make the best use of our children's time, our children will soon be seen moving towards success.
8: Consistency
Persistence is a valuable asset to you and your children that you will never regret, so schedule your own and your children's homework and skills development. If you do not do this, the child's mental abilities may be paralyzed during the exact exams and you may suffer from depression and frustration along with the child. So never forget consistency and punctuality.
9: Encouraging
It is very important for the development of children that their efforts to achieve anything should be appreciated rather than the actual result. What is special about the learning process of children is that they learn from the reaction of their parents, so they should be encouraged to do every good deed, to encourage any frustrated person to work happily and And the name of the motivator for success. We all need such encouragement, rewards and praise all the time. Behind every successful person in the world is the urge to do something and make the impossible possible. Therefore, parents should encourage their children and make them believe that they can make the impossible possible. Are capable.
10: Determining the real goal
By taking a good look at all these things, we train our children in such a way that their heart, mind, consciousness and inner being realize the difference between this insignificant goal and the great goal and look at the goals of life Revisit Subject your short-lived worldly goal to the real goal and focus on eternal life, which is the never-ending afterlife. Redefine your accomplishments, your goals, and your goals in the light of the guidelines in the book of guidance.