Real People Real Friends

What is a Friend?

If you are searching for

true meaning of a friend then you must need

itself a true friend to tell you what is exact

meaning of a “true friend”

“A true friend is a person who keeps your existence in

himself as a part of his own soul”

Understand or not?

Hmmm!

I think so you all don’t understand le’me tell

you then;

“Keeping friend’s existence in himself means

consider him to be part of his own existence”

Quantity:

“Actually you have to understand the basic

knowledge of friendship it’s a bond between

two persons not more than two and not less

than two”

If any common person thinks if they are three

or more and they are friends its false belief.

They are not friends to each other at a time

because a person at a time can’t be friends of

two persons or more because mostly people in

friendship demands entire concentration of

other.

A person at a time may consider two friends

as his friends and he may be right but you will

see others may not be like such good friends of

each other.

If anyone wants to talk to you only something

like privately because he only trust you in

this matter. He don’t wanna tell other this

information then you must care about his

feelings and to give him a time.

I don’t wanna say one that one person can’t

have more than friends but I wanna say that

he can’t treat three friends as completely

friends equally at the same time. Each one has

his own priorities may be your second friend

only talks to you about his personal life and

takes your advice and you’re the only person

who all knows and understand himself so two

of your friends ain’t be your equal friends so

ownwards you’re creative too.

“Understand buddy!”

I will say in short:

“there is a bond of two and crowd of

three”

Quality:

When it comes to the selecting a friend.

It is very crucial to see that who is your

friend. Because you don’t want to affect your

personality negatively just due to your friend.

Actually if you observe quietly you will see

that if you start sitting with any kind of

people you will start to replicate his ethics

,moral codes and all the stuff of qualities he

keeps.

It is not a joke to make and have any person as

a friend in your life. It is the serious most

topic to be considerate it as also a priority.

Friend as a Virus:

A friend is just like a virus who spreads

his DNA into the host (other friends) and

starts to replicates all the characters of his

DNA into you and this replicated DNA will

start to stick and cooperate with your DNA

and will be in in like dormant phase with all

its characteristics dominant in you and nextly

this DNA will use you as its machinery and

will start to infect others people (your

friends) too.

This replication will never stop and you will

be used as a host and you will never know if

you will never considerate it.

Importance of friend in ISLAM:

Friend in Islam is so important aspect of

life that our HOLY PROPHET HAZRAT

MUHAMMAD SAWW with great emphasis:

1-Narrated AbuHurairah Radi Allahu anhu :

The Prophet SallallahuAlalhi wasallam

said: A man follows the religion of his

friend; so each one should consider whom he

makes his friend.

Sunan Abu Dawud, Book 41, 4815-Hasan

2- Narrated Abdullah Radi Allahu Anhu :

The Prophet Sal-Allahu Alaihi Wasallam

said, "Everyone will be with those whom he

loves."

Sahih Bukhari, Vol 8, Book 73, No. 189

These above ahadees tell a lot about how

importance Islam gives to a friendship and its

effect on a person

SYMBIOSIS EFFECT IN FRIENDSHIP:

In biology, we studied about a concept of

“symbiosis” which states that two organisms

lives together in different ways ;

1-Parasites:

Bad friends are same like parasites e.g

mosquito which sucks blood of its host and in

return transfer the virus into its host same

like that bad friends just sucks your

important time and your good personality and

in return harms you in form of virus of bad

habbits .

2-MUTUALISM:

IN Mutualism, if you have a good friend he

will be definitely just like in mutualism two

organisms live together by cooperating with

each other and benefiting each other. Same

like that a good friend will definitely benefits

you by transferring good habbits into you and will get in return get some good habbits from

you.

COMPANY AVERAGE:

It is a concept being derived from bad and

good impacts of company which states:

“You are always average of your whole

company”

It means that if you have a different types of

friends you will get different types habbits

from these friends and you will become

average of all that characteristics.

CHAIN REACTION:

Chain reaction is a whole complete process

through which a person as your friend can

effect your whole life as follow:

And change in expected results will destroy

your whole destination.

TYPES OF COMPANY AND FRIEND

SELECTION:

TYPE OF NATURES:

1-LEG PULLERS:

Leg pullers aren’t able to be keep as friends

they will never let you do anything good until

they are in your company so except taking a

person who is legpuller as your friend he is

not a good person though.

2-APPRECIATERS:

Appreciaters are those persons who

will appreciate every person efforts and

regards others success. They are just like

sometimes inhalers for people who have just a

lack of confidence in their abilities. These

people appreciate people in good deeds.

3-LOVERS:

This category of people is unique of

all. These people are so rare.

Lovers are those people who always want to

get you what is benefited for you but not that

you want its like appreciaters plus critics and

loves you . These people may fight with you

for your benefit.

4-CRITICS:

Critics are those people who are

professionals and experienced persons with a

lot of wisdom. They neither l0ves you nor

hates you but always stand with the way to

perfection and guides you the correct way and

beware you from bad ways in your field of

life.

5-HATERS:

Haters are those people who are the

worst people of all they aren’t even able to

accept your wellbeing and success they

always hates you and finds the ways to pullyour leg and put you on the ground they

always wish you may not get the success.

They cannot see any person making success in

front of them.

6-CARELESS PEOPLE:

Careless people are those people who don’t

want you to be succeed or fail. They keep on

only to their selves.

7-FLATTERING PEOPLE:

These are also the worst people. A flattery

person will never let you see your weaknesses

and so you will never be able to work on your

weaknesses and will always keep you one step

away from your success.

8-ENJOYMENT COMPANY:

These are “time pass people”

which we said are our “best friends” mostly

but this will only left you with feeling of hurt

in future so never said these people as your

best friends say them as your timely charm

partners which will leave with time.

Result:“Lovers can only be your best

friends”

GOOD FRIEND AS HEALER:

Good friend is always like a healer. It

means he sees your wounds and becomes

anxious and will never sit with satisfaction

until he leads you towards complete healing

with satisfaction

FRIEND AS A GOOD COVER:

Friends always expose a friend’s

weakness in front him not to torture him or

make him ashamed but just to make repair

these weaknesses. Friends never listens any

comments against his friends and defends him

in his absence and never tell him the

comments that are bad and people are doing

these as his back bitting so it will not hurt

him.

GOOD FRIEND AS A FILTER:

Good friends are always like a filter means

they make you transparent with good

characteristics and by filtering your badcharacteristic. No one can be your friend just

because of that you both spent very good

times together like enjoying bad habbits and

doing bad deeds. Your friend will always be

like as explained below shortly;

“PERSON SEEING HIS FRIEND REMEMBERS ALLAH

AND HIS DEEDS CALLS HIM TOWARDS ALLAH”

USMAN DANISH

SNAKES:

This term is used regularly for the friends

who have inward aura against you. They

wanna destroy you anyhow. So I don’t want to overflood my book with bad people and bad

habited people so be positive will simply say a

lot as below;

“Real people Real friends besides they

never make friends”

USMAN DANISH

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