The World Is Following Give And Take Policy
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Nothing bad on that even most of the long lasting relationships are based on this give and take policy. A giver may give for free but still an achiever. He achieved either respect or self satisfaction and sometimes good attention as well. Some give and take policy is very open and that looks like a deal. I think its fine if something last long for giving and taking continuously. But one thing I experienced and realized that, in this world nothing can be free. If something look like free then be sure someone, somewhere sponsoring it or paying for it.
Take YouTube for example, it pays for monetized video contents and video content creators giving their efforts, talent, spending money too on quality cameras and hiring models but all content creators are not doing this for free they all are doing this for money. We watching their content for free? Nope we are spending time which can be compared to money so we are paying or giving too when we are watching videos on YouTube. YouTube paying or giving content creators for free? Nope, they are paying a parentage from the earning and this is a good expandable business. And this was just an example.
The cycle of give and take when last for long we find this as success and yes it is success even its a deal. Without giving when we expect to get, we lost the respect and this is very nature law. A person who wants to get everything free hardly get respect for this kind of habit. Personally I don't like people loved to have free gifts, effortless money and live like a parasite. I met an old man yesterday who was selling fruits and snacks of fruits. He was too old but still working for money because he is not a free money finder or have enough self respect. I love this kind of people who prefer working till the rest of life instead sitting idle to get from others like a beggar.
Personally I met beggars too in my life and I may help them with money or food but I don't respect them at all. So a only receiver lose respect and doesn’t deserve it too. On the other hand a giver give and get respect in return as he deserves. I love and appreciate both give and take in a balancing mood. A giver with limited wealth will get tired giving and this is very natural. Some truth are ugly but still the truth! Many parents give birth child because they want to secure their future and they give birth to get support in future.
How it feels like that your parents gave birth you for securing their future? Giving birth also for taking advantage. It may hurt many but it can be found and can you imagine how the life of that child or children who were planned to be in this earth to give return more than he or she take. A life before arriving in this earth were deciding to be a giver. This is very deep and only can be understandable to those people who was born to be giver. This feeling is unexplainable.
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I appreciate your perspective on give and take in relationships and the concept of being a giver. It's interesting to see how you value respect and self-sufficiency.