Say No But Don't Misbehave
My heart cry for needy people, for those needy who has need but they don't beg. Begging is now a kind of profession for many but unknowingly we can't judge everyone so we feel pity and help. Begging is a thing which not even appreciated by Almighty Allah and he doesn’t like people who depend on other people who can day NO many time but a beggar is unwise that Almighty can give him everything but other people can't so if you want to beg, beg to Almighty.
Many of us found misbehaving with beggars because they are irritating. If we can't afford to help we can say simply NO and leave the place where there beggars gathering. Many people show their cruel face and push beggars like other animals. Wise people never beg for money and food, they only believe that, Almighty is one enough for them and they really never face such situation in life when they need to beg. So whatever you want just beg to Almighty instead to other people around you.
Who beg? People who doesn’t have money or food? The answer is No. People who beg surely not blessed enough with wisdom and has never ending need. If you think deeply you can understand what I want to say. Begging become their habit and they don't even have self respect. But whatever the psychology of a beggar would be, why we become inhuman? What insist us to misbehave?
Don't misbehave to beggars. They are already out of wisdom and out of luck. They loves themselves as parasite so you can't lose the wisdom. If you can afford then give some penny or food to help them as Almighty encourage helping others. If you can't afford to help either ignore them or say No to them. We have no right to misbehave to anyone, not only to beggars. Our misbehaviors can't change the beggar, they won't stop begging even they will try to have sympathy from others when you will misbehave.
A person already in need and his need force him to beg is already a helpless and our misbehavior can make them more upset and more needy. Last Ramadan when I met some beggars in the street they were really very needy and your small donation can't even satisfy them. For example, there is a group of beggars you trying to give equally but they are now asking for family who was physically absent there. Some show off their handicapped children to get extra support or money. And at that time other beggars start competition and start showing family needs for extra money.
Many donors got shocked that how he could support this never ending needy beggars? Some lost their patience and got panic attack as a result start doing misbehave in such situation in very normal. But we have to control the anger and leave the crowd of beggars. According to my experience a beggar dare to ask me that why I helped the other beggar with extra money and food? In this situation anger is very nature but that should be control as I did and simply ignore the beggar right there. You never ever can satisfy or help completely these never ending needy beggars so reply them NO but don't misbehave. You can't spoil your image as a human being.