Today my discussion topic and my message will be for parents. Parents of today's world seems very smart and concerned about their kids and this is a good sign. They have to be mature too to ensure a successful life for their kids. We need to spend quality time with our kids and research on their expertise like what he/she loves to do and good at. As a parent this is one of our responsibility.
Most of the parents wants that their kids become doctor, engineer or someone who earn social respect and fem. This is very common among parents and they are not wrong on their way but they shouldn't force their kids to do something they are not even interested. Many parents found emotionally blackmail kids to do something they don't want and that is really very bad I believe.
Once I watched a dance reality show on television where a seven years old boy dance like a professional dancer and he didn't had a training of dancing he taught from the television. The can pick the dance movement easily as he had interest to it, his parents encourage him to do it so he was enable to continue. He often entertained people in their local function and people suggest his parents to participate in the very popular dance reality show telecast in Indian television. When dance experts learn about him was surprised.
A seven years old kids dance like a professional just by watching TV was surprising. His parents gave him the chance to do it or else it never could be possible for his own, would be possible when he grew up. His parents helped him to reach the platform. So this way we can encourage our kids for their hidden talent inside them. This was just a simple example there are huge examples you can find around.
If your kids like to pose as model encourage him to make different expression and help him to practice it. If your kids like to photography help him with the beginner tools, provide him proper care and encouragements and ignore when people around you commenting negative things about your kids talent.
Most of the parents doesn't allow their kids to do something exceptional or practice their talent just because of negative comment of others and concerned about what people will think and talk about it? I've seen in my real life that parents are responsible for most kid's success and also failure, Many kids are nip in bud. I feel really very sorry about those poor kids and also those parents who doesn't care about the happiness of their kids but they care about other people's negative comment and opinions.
So in my blog the message to responsible parents is that, encourage your children when they practicing their talent and finding something interesting in life. We can be the best parents by helping them and we can be worst parents by make them stop when they have high potentiality to do something big.
©SHOHANA
Nice words of encouragement and advise to our today's parents