In 2016 they met in my Facebook timeline. I've a post there they both commented and became friends. Gradually they became more than friends. They decide to be in a relationship that later will be a bonding of lifetime, they'll get married in future.
But all relationship doesn’t work out successfully. The couple considered me as the witness of their relationship. Their relationship was mutual and when they decide to broke up that was mutual too.
Today in the evening they both confirmed their break-up to me. I just smelled that they are going to be separated but today I got the finale confirmation. I was shocked because they could be a beautiful couple as they show off their love in social media and close people knows about their relationship.
Today they both are blaming each other for this break up and of course yes they both are equally responsible for this. I'll explain the problems from both sides.
Girls like caring person to love and girls fall in love faster and take decisions emotionally. Manoshee did that too. Her name is Manoshee and she is a nurse by profession. She was broken completely when she broke up for the first time. She wanted to commit suicide at that moment Sumon comes to her life as a hope or mental support.
Sumon is a graduate student and average type student. Manoshee is really very serious about her career and after his father's death her family is her responsibility. She is straggling in her life. Her boyfriend Sumon was caring and Manoshee also showed her love in many ways.
Now problem is Manoshee can't marry an unemployed guy like Sumon. He is not serious about his career and Manoshee is opposite to it. So they ended up blaming each other selfish. Manoshee wanted to see himself building up his career but he doesn’t responsible enough to work and earn. He failed in graduation exam.
At the beginning of break up it was difficult to them to move on. So Sumon ask few times from Manoshee to stay in his life but Manoshee's intention was not to leave him but wanted to teach him responsibilities.
Sumon now in another relationship and Manoshee after knowing this trying to overcome this shock and she will also move on. But is it easy to move on instantly?
They both are blaming each other but they both thinks themselves right. This is not easy for a girl to have an unemployed husband in life specially when she is taking responsibility of her own family. So she decided to break up. Now Sumon is preparing to marry another girl and he moved on completely.
Their relationship could be an example of good couple but unfortunately many people who knows them personally will get scared to be in a relationship. They'll stop believing others to love or to make commitment.
Between two no one is ready to compromise or sacrifice. Manoshee could believe in Sumon and could make him a part of her hard life and Sumon could be responsible gradually.
On the other hand, Sumon could understand the situation of Manoshee as she lost her father. Sumon could wait instead involved in a relationship with other girl. He could wait patiently as he also needs time to build his career for future. So they both are guilty and they could make a solution and stay together forever. But their fate was written this way!
Their broken relationship made me upset and this may spread negative news. I wish real lovers never ever get apart.
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©SHOHANA
Pure relationship is rare nowadays. Relationship ended in separation. It’s now common. But break up is a hard thing.