You have to say no!

You have to say no to people, even if it is difficult or means creating some cracks in your relationship with them. I believe that at certain times, we can be a little selfish and think about our own good, after all, our life is just one and we will stay until when, giving priority to other people, while we go through difficulties or else, damaging our career, mood and sanity?

This is not simple at all, I confess that in many situations, I am there saying yes and regretting it later, it happens that the worst of all is when it comes from people close to you, people who are living with you and they, more than anyone else, know about the difficulties of its moment and its existence. Even so, taking advantage of the love we feel for her, her attitudes are of someone who is very relaxed and who loves to achieve things at our expense.

So, how should we act? Friendships and loves do not need to be undone or ended, but it is necessary for survival reasons to find a balance between points and adapt to the situations experienced. The task will never be easy and will often create a tense atmosphere of doubts and disagreements between you and whoever you are, but evolving is fundamental, protecting yourself is essential and your best shield is certainly to just say no.

Trying to please everyone is a mistake, but it's logical, we want acceptance, we seek peace, a pleasant relationship that yes, we love that person, but why does they take actions that do us so much harm? Cruel doubt about humanity, that's how we are, we want the best for ourselves and what's left belongs to others, we want a yes all the time and when we get a no, end of story, the game is over.

Balancing is necessary, being respected is unquestionable, the training has to start now, with the people who are there by your side, analyze the moments and discover when is the best time to simply say no, I won't do it and I don't want to. They will be scared, judge you, but you shouldn't struggle to please anyone. If the other person really loves you, they will understand that you need to take your time and that saying yes to everything is just another variant of madness.

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