What does Islam say about love for the purpose of marriage?
Love is the name of a special state of the human heart, which is created by a combination of passion, deep feelings towards someone. True love is love for God and His Messenger, without which no human being can be a believer. If you love someone in the world, you love only for Allah. The love of parents, brothers and sisters, wife and children, as well as love of soul and blood relatives is also included in the worship of Allah Almighty. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: When a Muslim spends for the sake of his family in the hope of reward, it is considered as his charity. (Muslim: 12/14, Hadith: 1002)
It has been said in the Holy Qur’an, ‘O you who believe, do not let your wealth and children distract you from the remembrance of Allah. And those who do so are the losers. '(Surah: Munafiqun, verse: 9). In this verse it is said about those whose love is permissible and whose worship is that they should not be indifferent to the remembrance of Allah. So how disgusting would it be if those relationships which Allah the Almighty has forbidden, distract someone from the remembrance of Allah? God bless you.
Psychologist Robert Steinberg divides love into three components. Replaced that element with a triangle. One of those three elements is emotion (sexual or romantic attraction). (G-News) The attraction that can push people towards adultery. It has been said in the Holy Qur'an, do not go near adultery. Surely it is an indecency and an evil way. (Surah: Isra, verse: 32)
So there is no excuse for having an illicit affair with someone in the name of premarital love even for the purpose of marrying someone. The question may arise, in many cases it may not even be about the physical, will it be haraam even in that case? One can look to these hadiths to find the answer.
Narrated from Hazrat Abu Huraira (may Allah be pleased with him), he said that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, adultery of the eyes is (seeing a foreign woman), adultery of the tongue is (talking to her) (sexual arousal). (Bukhari, Hadith: 6243)
In another hadith, it has been narrated that adultery with two eyes is (looking at (an adulterous woman)), adultery in the ear is sexually arousing, adultery is induced, touching the hand is immoral (touching an adulterous woman is bad) and adultery is in the mind. Adultery is seeking and expecting. (Meshkat, Hadith: 6)
Moreover, if you think that he is very religious, praying, he also orders you to pray with a veil, you will be very happy after marriage with him.
Islam says you are completely wrong and are in the ultimate deception of Satan. Because, the one you actually think is a worshiper, pious and pious is not one of them! Kano knows that if he is really devout, prayerful, pious, a non-mahram like you would have a relationship with him where he would not even talk to you.
When a man falls in love, he cannot help but see the man in his mind. Even if he is away, at least looking at his pictures, or talking to him on the phone, at least he gets lost in the dream, every level of which is said to be haram in the hadiths mentioned. If there is a real weakness in someone, he should get married as a family. It is haraam to have a relationship with a stranger even if you are determined to get married. And the end result of most love is separation, betrayal. This is the mirage of the devil.
# Theme: So love for marriage and bank robbery for Hajj are the same!
# Allah Almighty grant my dear brothers and sisters the grace to come out of this forbidden path:
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