# Delaying_marriage_is_ actually_haram_in_Islam! "
You know that two people want to get married, you should get married, if you don't, you are a sinner! Remember!
They are involved in a public-haram, whenever asked they say we are engaged! But do not get married! Thus, after two or three years, when the girl became pregnant, we started running to marry her! This is what is happening in the society. Allahummagfirli.
If they are suitable for marriage, then get the marriage done. Let them stay at home, what? Who says that a girl should go to her husband's house as soon as she gets married or take her wife home immediately after marriage?
They are studying, and want to finish their studies. So what happened? Get married and stay at home for now, pick up the boy's wife or send the girl to the boy's house when they finish their studies. In-sha-Allah then a big Walima will be organized.
There is no problem.
But what do we say? "No! No! No! Keep it! No son's degree, no daughter-in-law's degree! Don't get married now! Let them wait !!!"
But! But they are all about getting involved! And a part of the sin they are committing will come upon you! I'm not saying the whole thing but a part will definitely come upon you!
Learn from the Sunnah, what did the Prophet (peace be upon him) teach us?
He said, "The decision of marriage is final, get it done quickly. It's time for prayers, get it done quickly. Someone has died, get janaza and burial quickly."
Do we say when someone dies, "Stay now! There will be janaza-burial in a couple of years !?" No! Don't say!
But that's what you're doing with your daughter, with her daughter-in-law! God forgive.
Get married. If you fear God, you fear society. I want to marry two people, let me do it. Don't be late. And they don't have to be together right now, as I said ... he'll take his wife home when the son's house is next.
Qualification !? Degree !?
Subhan-Allah!
Some of the happiest relationships in the world are those who have no degree! Those who do not have any qualification!
Allahu Akbar. Allahummagfirli.
You take the boy's news.
If his piety is right, the character is good, faithful and responsible. But get married.
Many of our parents had nothing when they got married. 30 years later they now own a lot of assets!
And today? They are looking for a boy who is established for the girl! He must be rich from the beginning!
Give him a chance, come-on man!
Think for yourself. When you were getting married, you couldn't even afford to wear shoes, you used to wear sandals and walk around!
Allahu Akbar. And today you are rich! It took you 20-30 years to make this resource! And now that you are rich, your daughter wants to get married and you say "no"! Because the boy has nothing! But you didn't have much when you got married and after marriage you became rich.
Allah also says:
And I am from you, and you are the best.
That is
"And marry among yourselves unmarried men and women and virtuous male and female slaves. If they are in need, GOD will provide for them by His grace. GOD is Rich, Wise." (Surah Noor: 32).
You have chosen the right partner, if he is poor, Allah will make him prosperous by His grace, because Allah is the one who lacks nothing.
Well, it doesn't happen that someone marries his daughter to a rich man, but after 10 years they have lost everything!
It is not a matter of finding rich people, it is a matter of finding honest people.