The growth of the sowed seeds dominantly depend on its sower. The flowers in the garden entrusted its beauties to its gardener. So what can we look forward to a child whose parents are away while growing within immensely insolence society.?
It was been divulged in many walks of life that children loose their right track due to the absence of their parents. Parents who are abroad, risking their sanctuarity with the hope better life for their love ones. Having the hope afterhand that this sacrifice they rendered would build a comfortable life for their children especially of today's economic obscurity. But the latter turns hostile of its purpose. Children began to manifest ill practices, behaviors, and mannerisms. Although, someone were entrusted for their upbringing still no one can supplement a fraction of cares given by their own parents. Then longings will turn into a cause of rebellious acts. Children joining groups, organizations, fraternity whose aims are for mad crafts trying to seek attentions to fill the spaces provided by the absence of their parents. Children going to night club parties, drinking and satisfying themselves with alcohol and ensued are failing grades and destroyed dreams.
Who could have been wrong? Is it the person entrusted? Who has been vigilant for their welfare but unable to maintain a well-lined personality of the children because they do not heed them as much as how they value their parents' words. Is it the children's fault? Who were longing for love, hugs and cares that they needed the most upon being plunged into a sicked and wicked environments? Or is it their parents' offense? Who have been at risk in an unknown place entailed with uncertainties and probable dangers reliant to the favorable life it would create for them? I say "NO", none has the full responsibility and is credible for the outcomes. Everyone has a share portion of the consequences. But one thing Im sure of ; Everyone is responsible for their own life , no one else is. We are the one who manipulates our steps as we go with our chosen paths although, influences amidst along the way still we have our free will to flee from it or to go with the current but of course children needed their parents who have been already more experienced and wiser.
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