Educate, but teach your child to overcome psychological pressures

Education is the prime importance to mould the character and personality trait of a child. When we are to enroll a child in school, we enquire about the school, the teachers and so on....once the child starts his session, from the very first day we have to monitor the child. Is he happy?

Initially the First days ought to be quite tough both for the student and parent. It takes time for the child to adjust with his friends, teachers, schools and the new environment. But as days go by and if the child is reluctant to go to school, then it has to be viewed seriously.

There may be issues where the child is scared to share to his parents. Unless the child is sure that his parent will listen and find a solution to his problem, he will not be ready to share. Most parents try to find fault in their own children than to standby and support. This is what is called psychological pressure, where the child is reluctant to open up to his parents. The child should be repeatedly remembered that he is your strength. A source of motivation for him.

The child who is psychologically strong will be able to handle and solve any issues in future. For this he should be trained psychologically to handle small issues from a very young age. For that the child should see and learn. If the parent earns meager income and supports his family financially with this low income, it should be whole heartedly welcomed by the family. Meaning we should not expect more than our needs. He /she should see all the downfall and the struggle we overcome and go through.

Secondly when the child demands more than expected, it should in no way be appreciated by the parents. Stop him/her right there. Do not ever give up to their unwanted demands. Let them cry, be angry with you- this is another learning lesson. A learning process to control their anger and frustration, in future.

When the child comes with any issues related to his friends or teachers, have patience to listen to them and if you find he is right from his point of view support and find a solution to his/her problem. And if as a parent you think it can be handled by himself, ask him to do so. Never encourage or support him for something that isn't right from his/her part. That will only imcrease his dominance to the weak and oppressed one in the society.

Simple teachings in the young age and the little natural learning, is enough to promote the child to be psychologically strong when he grows up. He can face any issurs with a strong heart.

Our education system years before, was learning by seeing naturally. Now-a-days children take the help of the computer to learn something. The result of which they are not able to put any effort to solve if any problem arise. The initiative to learn something naturally is gone.

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