The man's words are still ringing in my ears. His home is in South Africa. She is not black, she is white. He is not a Christian but a Muslim. Although his acquaintance with me was short-lived, the unity of thought between the two brought them closer together. His words were very sophisticated; He spoke very neatly. He is a businessman by profession. He spoke English. I was fascinated to learn a lot of South African information from him. And I was surprised to hear about the miserable state of law and order in that country. In that country, it is not clear who took whose life. Every home has high walls, strong security fences, and ferocious dogs. Even then no man is at rest, no man is asleep. There is always a panic when danger comes down. I am sitting in silence after hearing the details of such a hellish state in South Africa. Suddenly he said - I saw writing in a car of your country - education is the backbone of the nation, that is the address. I asked him if our car was written in Bengali. How did you read He said, "Since it is written on the car, I have found out by asking the person next to me considering its importance." He continued to say that the word is not correct, the reason is that education is two types of good education and poor education. Su Shikshai is the backbone of the nation, there would be no chance of making a mistake if I wrote like this. The more I listen to her, the more fascinated I get lost in the depths of thought. I started thinking about the university teachers. It is about the big-headed intellectuals of our country. I started thinking about the big bureaucrats. I started remembering the words of doctors and engineers. All of them are educated. Being a fool is not supposed to be a university teacher. Have you become a doctor without studying? Or an engineer? Has there been a big head of state without education? I have to admit they are educated. But all of them are well educated, it is difficult to say. A great writer of Bengali literature who is also a university teacher, if he wants to chew the bodies of young women like chewing gum, then should I call his education good education? What do I say to the education of those who are in the business of stealing by occupying one honorable position in the state? Another doctor named who is also a writer. He incites girls to nudity, is his education well-educated? Of course she is a highly educated woman. My thoughts were just expanding to match the stalks. I was not talking, the foreign friend said seeing my silence - do not like me? I said- said. He began to say again. He said- if you donate to someone, you will give money. I wanted to know- why? He said, "Suppose you send one kg of meat to the house next door." You threw him into trouble. Now that guy has to add oil. The problem of adding spices and grains has to be borne. Isn't it better to pay for it? He gave a watch as a gift at someone's wedding. One hundred more people like you donated watches. After getting a hundred watches, the poor man got into trouble. In the time of the Companions, the newlyweds were helped on the basis of advice. By doing this they could stand on their own feet. He said, "There is a loss of life while taking zakat in your country." This is a joke about zakat. He who pays Zakat must be well educated. Poor education also calls into question a good deed like zakat. Suddenly the power went out while talking. The whole house was covered in darkness. We couldn't see anyone. He said- why there is no light, you know? I said - there is no electricity. He said communication with the power office had been cut off. The light will not come on until this connection is restored. Thus, as soon as people sin, they lose contact with God. Then a black mark falls on the human club. And as soon as a person repents, his relationship with God is restored. He said - Forgiveness is a great virtue, learn to forgive people. God will forgive you. He narrated an incident and said that a Buzurg was walking on the road. The wicked boys were throwing stones at Buurg. Bujurg's mind was filled with anger, he was going to curse the boys, so his eyes fell on another place. He saw a group of boys throwing stones at the mango tree and the mango tree was giving them funny mango gifts. Bujurga changed his mind and said to himself, "Am I inferior to the mango tree?" The mango tree is eating something good in return for the slack, and I am eating the slack with bad blessings. No, it won't, I'll pray for the boys. Allah Almighty changed the boys into good people with the blessings of Bujurg. Tears welled up in his eyes as he spoke. He said- Brother, can't we be such a donor? What is the gift of just handing something over to someone? Isn't it a gift to pray for someone in a pure heart? He said the habit of praying for people should be developed. Your prayers can be the cause of someone's recovery. Thanks to your prayers, someone can become debt free. With your prayers, someone can be saved from the punishment of the grave. Those who have benefited from your prayers, to the extent that they have benefited, you yourself must be a partaker of such welfare. An incident he began to tell. He said that a person used to drink alcohol. He did not pray or fast. But during the call to prayer he would hide the alcohol and answer the call to prayer. That man was once on the verge of death. Holy words are not coming out of his mouth in difficult condition. Repeatedly he is being taught the word and he is not saying no. An old man heard the man's words. He sat down in his chair and told his wife to tell him about your husband's good habits. The wife said she had no good habits, but she would answer the call to prayer, at which time she would not drink alcohol. Buurg then started giving Azan. The lips of the dying man trembled. He muttered and started answering the call to prayer. As soon as the last sentence of the call to prayer was said La ilaha illallah, the man said La ilaha illallah. And just then Malakul Maut took out his soul. His neighbors knew that a drunkard had left the world. And that Buzurg declared that a saint of Allah has departed from the world after reciting the Holy Qur'an.
Do you understand? No one has to hate.