The woman who lacks emotional intelligence and flexibility in dealing is the most unsuccessful in marriage.
#Why :
1 - Because she will enter into a tug of war and follow the voice of her selfishness to overcome it, and in fact she fails in front of her husband's stubbornness, and the stubbornness of those around her. Men get stubborn in front of the stubborn wife, or the stubborn sister, and soften before the submissive woman.
2- A stubborn woman is stupid. She thinks that when she clings to her opinion and stands before the storm, she will win.
And she forgets that if she wins an opinion and an attitude, she sees her triumph in her idiocy, but only loses a heart that loved her.
And children are destroyed whose minds are not aware of the meaning of devastation until recently.
3- Many narrations and rulings praise the easy-going, soft, friendly, and returning woman, even the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, and his companions after him, who is the woman who contains her husband with grace and wisdom, as he will adore her and stick to her.
4- The woman who bends over to pass the storm; She is the wise, rational woman who lives forever in a house, and the woman who stands like a dry stick is the one who breaks and may not be forced to break it.
5- The stubborn woman who clings to her opinion, who believes in the principle of I am most while you are losing; Rather, it destroys itself before it destroys the other. And she lives a whole life of sorrowful sorrow in this world and the hereafter.
6- From my experiences in marital counseling, I found that stubborn women end up in divorce, and their family and social life fails.
7- The Bedouin recommends her daughter on her wedding night with wonderful and proven wisdom and a recipe that successful wives emphasized, which is:
(Being his slave has everything you want).
Men are very kind, generous and benevolent
Except that stubborn women turn them into enemies.
👈 # for utility
Stubborn women have abounded in our society
Entire families were destroyed, and there were many divorces and widows.
(The world is a wealth and the best of the world is a good wife)
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, has ratified.