Life is hidden in songs
Songs....
Life is hidden in songs. Songs contain the past. With its pain, with its sweetness, with all its beauty ...
There are many types of music. Everyone's listening style is different. Each type is more beautiful and magnificent than the other.
Artists tell all their experiences with songs about him and what he will live. Sometimes it can be difficult to confess your love. You try to tell with a song. The people who made the song intended it. Love songs .. "Do you have the courage to love, my heart is beating different"
It is also written when he confesses his love and does not get a response.
A song written for a lover while experiencing a very beautiful love.
Friend peg is eaten and one more song.
The secret of life is in the songs. Almost all songs are full of experience.
I have great respect for musicians.
I was going to be a musician too, but my father didn't allow it. So I decided to be a cook. I put all my love in your food. All my pain, joys and life.
While cooking, I forget everything.
Music is an art. Food is also an art. Every job we love is art. The art of making yourself happy.
Do what you love too.
I couldn't be a musician, but it doesn't mean I won't. Maybe I will. Maybe I'll start tomorrow. Follow your dreams too. The songs tell about it. The songs tell it all. I'm not listening to listen to the songs. I hear your words. I try to understand and learn from them.
I enjoy listening to songs.
Suddenly I open a Song and start dancing. I enjoy the smallest thing, I am happy.
Listen to the song. Everything is hidden in the songs.
Sing your favorite song out loud.
Even if you have a bad voice, say it, don't stop.
Do what you love, do not delay.
I love you all.
I wish you healthy days.
İt's not easy to be a woman.
Hello beautiful people.
I live in Turkey and a Turkish citizen. There are many difficulties in Turkey. One of the most prominent ones is TO BE A WOMAN. Being a woman in Turkey is really hard. With this lake since we started in the 2000s. MUSTAFA KEMAL ATATÜRK tried many times to explain how valuable our women are and how they are human beings and made innovations. He was the greatest revolutionary.
I remember him with respect and longing. I love her so much. It gave women the right to vote and be elected. He gave many more rights. Things have gotten worse and worse after he left.
According to the accounts, everything was fine and normal until 2000. I was born in 2002 and I will tell you what I lived in my 19 years of life and the women around me. I am a good observer.
1- violence
Violence against women has increased over the years since I really got to know life.
They are killing our women. It is increasing with each passing year. On top of that, there are disgusting views such as the woman was wrong in murders, fortunately she killed, she deserved it.
Let's say there is a wounded or dead woman lying on the ground. Everybody gathered around and say disgusting things like dressed open, deserved, leg open, hairless ... Yes these are correct. Things like this are quite hateful to the society I'm in.
2-woman is the enemy of women.
No, you did not read it wrong. This is the case in my country. Although not every woman, women do a lot of work after each other. They leave their positions and their own lives and criticize the lives of other women. They reproach each other. They never know how to gossip.
I guess he doesn't feel like a Turkish woman.
3- What does my team say?
Unfortunately, women cannot do anything freely. He doesn't wear what he wants. They criticize wear it. I love women who ignore criticism and don't care. Women can wear whatever they want. She can wear decollete. If he wants, he can wear a black chador. Who does this concern?
Of course nobody.
He can go out at any time he wants. He can travel. Nobody can limit anyone's life.
4- friends of the opposite sex
This is a situation I have experienced.
I have boyfriends that I see like my brothers. Surely everyone has it, and it's amazing. I would recommend it to everyone. My elders are against this situation in my country. They think a man and a woman can never be friends. I am very against this situation. We don't need blood to be brothers. I love all my friends. It can be a woman and a boyfriend. Accept this.
5-housework is the duty of the woman
Housework is not a woman's duty.
Housewives will of course do the work. But married couples will of course do things together. The man will help the woman. Imagine a couple who are both working. They will cook together and clean together. The old generation used to do everything women, but the new generation is no longer like that. Their minds are outdated and they still think that way. In the past, our grandmothers used to wash the feet of men and women in their time. I think this is really interesting and disgusting. If a woman can take care of herself, a man can take care of herself.
I think the new generation is more understanding and helpful. I hope they won't mislead me ...
6- woman is dirt on man's hand
This is the subject I most dislike most. The perception that honor is only in women. All those who seek honor among women are dishonorable. Honor is not between two legs. Honor has a mindset and a heart. Dirt and dirt in people's hearts is dishonesty. For this reason, women are subjected to psychological violence and are increasingly disappearing in terms of spirituality. Respect for women disappears.
"Woman is human, men are human beings"
Everyone has a mother. Woman is mother.
It's about every woman swearing in Turkey.
Denigrating women, swearing on the woman's genitals is a lot. These are very wrong, but nobody knows, unfortunately. The only way to change this order is to refresh the mind. If this mentality doesn't change, everyone who does it will taste these things. Everyone will have children, everyone will have a daughter or a son, a wife ...
Things are getting worse because we can't raise our boys. We must teach our boys right and wrong, the shame, our family values and most importantly, to be respectful. Respect means everything. We cannot judge anyone. Everyone establishes their own life in the best way and everyone is free to live the life they want. Now everyone should accept this.
You cannot judge a woman with her honor!
You cannot look at women badly, you cannot say bad words!
Woman is mother!
7- perception of beauty
Unfortunately, they perceive women as beautiful or ugly with their weight. Beautiful women are thought to be the weak ones. They use "bear, canister, pontoon, fat and more disgusting words" to overweight women.
Weak women, on the other hand, use words such as "pretzels, branches, blown will fly". However, not everything is external. Every woman is beautiful. After you can't see inside and can't feel your emotions, your appearance doesn't matter. They don't understand this.
All women are very beautiful and special.
8- harassment and rape
Almost every woman is subjected to harassment. When they do not consent to harassment and defend themselves , they are murdered. This is well received by our society. Yes, they are paid right. Do you think it is correct?
No true. Ve cannot distinguish between mistakes.what is wrong is not that the woman does not respond to the abuse. The wrong thing is that the Man is abusing. We need to realize this. Unfortunately , people are not getting the right things in their minds. Change your mindset now. What is wrong is the abuser. Not self-defense. Rape happens to hundreds of woman . No öne can learn from them. İt is getting more and more every day. A woman falls in love with a Man. The Man is hiding his marriage from the woman. When the woman finds out about this, she does not want to ve with her and leaves. Man also use violence against woman. She rapes ,shreds and burns her body. He pours concrete on it.Do you know who's guilty of this? Woman.
İn this case , the woman is found guilty. Society blames him. Justice is not served.
"Heaven is under the feet of mothers"
Every woman is a mother to be. She is mother.
NO WOMAN'S VIOLENCE!
9-Man are superior to woman.
Man and woman are equal!
There is are difference in physical strength , of course , but every Cat can work , earn money and stand strong on their feet alone. Women do not need Man. The woman can do whatever she wants. Every woman is very powerfull.
This was only part of it . I hope ı could explain it to you in a good way. I would like to explain the others in another article if ı collect their sentences. We are really tired of this situation. Everyone has a different opinion, but we have a try to find a middle ground. I just wanted to tell you that in Turkey but also in other countries ı'm sure there are a lot of similar problems. I want our voices to be Heard now. Everyone should be conscious . I believe everything can be very beautiful. We just have to find the middle ground and be a little more respectful of everything. Mind governs Man. For this , we have to change or defeat our mentality. I wish respect and love to everyone .
Have a healthy day, friends.❤️
What should be in a relationship?
Hello there.
I'll talk about the things that should happen in a relationship.
Everyone's relationship is different and their wishes are different, but I guess let me tell you how I want it to be if one day I have a relationship. so I'm starting
First of all, I will tell about my observations.
The relationship with the people around me is ridiculous and weird. That's my point. I do not judge but this is the truth.
We will travel together, for example, they get permission from their lovers. What is getting permission?
Such a thing cannot happen.
Everyone can make their own decisions. I tried to explain a lot but they don't understand.
I am only 19 years old. So are my friends. Many of them got married.
I'm starting to explain what should happen in my own relationship.
First of all I want to be friends. Spending time like friends, doing everything together. Going to school together, studying ... Doing whatever friends would do.
People who truly love never get bored with each other. Believe it.
The people who know us the most in this life and the people we know the most are our friends. For example, I trust my friends the most. I love them very much.
If something emotional starts between us, we feel.
For example, if I had a girlfriend, I would not interfere with him. Where did he go, with whom he went, what was he wearing ... These are not my business.
He can't take my permission because I can't stand!
Nobody can interfere with anyone. I do not interfere with your friends.
They can have girlfriends. There is no problem for me. It's all about trust and being in love with someone I don't trust.
My advice to you is, don't be dear to someone you don't trust.
The more you bore a person, the more he gets away from you. People are free.
Love him instead of boring him, friends. Love instead of fighting.
Trust instead of squeezing
Don't be dear to someone you don't trust.
Examine their behavior on you and your environment. Study their behavior towards strangers and even their behavior towards animals.
If you see rude in these behaviors and if they are kind to you, this person will also be rude to you. Unfortunately, people show their true faces when they get married.
For example, I do not want other boring relationships. I want to have fun. Let him be a fun person. I already know how to have fun, so on my own. You know, we can't get out of the house. I am having great fun by myself.
I am someone who can do every madness. You have no limits. Be the same for you. Don't let it interfere with you. Remember, this is your life.
I move on to the next.
I don't think he really cares about looks. In other words, no matter how handsome or beautiful a person is, the appearance does not matter if you do not understand, listen and chat with each other. There are a lot of very handsome but stupid people.
So what I mean is to judge anyone by appearances.
Everyone has the look they want, of course.
For example, I like blond people very much. People with blond and colored
eyes.
I also love tall men and women. I'm a little short, but that's how I am, but my eyes are blue. I mean, I prefer that blonde or auburn ..
I live in Turkey and said there is a perception in my country. What does Elalem say?
People cannot move freely, travel, or dress as they wish.
Because they think someone else will say something bad. Nobody cares about anyone, they don't understand this. Everyone is leaving their own life and focusing on someone else's life. This kind of thing is far from me. Girls don't change for anyone. You can do whatever you want. Nobody can tell you what to do. You will certainly make mistakes. I'll do it too. Everyone makes mistakes. Mistakes are there to learn.
In this period, we have to go out except to meet our needs. We have to squeeze a little more. These bad days will pass, my dear friends. I love you all.
What did Orhan Gencebay say; NOBODY IS PERFECT.
Stay with love and health.
Love is immeasurable
Sometimes they ask us. Do you love your mother or your father more?
However, there is no measure for this. It is not more to love mother or father, but both have a different or the same place. It must be the same. One should not be more than one.
Generally, in our circle of friends, we talk about who do you love the most. Everyone has a favorite friend. But I do not have. There really isn't.
For example, let's say I have 10 close friends.
I don't have the most favorite.
Because everyone's place is different for me.
I have never measured or tried to measure it.
My advice is don't measure your love. Love is immeasurable.
I love it as much as I can. I'm trying to love everything.
I have a daughter. Its name is melon. Since he came to us, my love has grown many times over. It has increased against everything. So are my mom and dad. We have chickens, for example, I wouldn't like them. Now they are like my children, I get happy when I feed them. We have a dog and I feel happy when we love and feed him. My love grows day by day. My advice to you is to get a pet. Love him very much and be sure you will start loving everything. Now I look at every event positively. I love every animal. I try to feed them, give water. This makes me more happy and peaceful. There are many positive aspects of life. Just open your eyes. I'm sending my love from here to my daughter. I love her so much. Good thing you have me, me. I am a cat mom. I love you too.
I wish you healthy days in these difficult times. Stay healthy..
loving heals the soul.
I think loving is the most valuable thing in life. I don't know what is most valuable to you, but the most precious thing to me is to love.
There is also being loved, of course. But lately I don't believe people can love me. This is due to the establishment of his trust.
Loving is a beautiful thing. It is a very nice feeling and limitless. I can love everything that feels good to me. You can love the same way. Say love ..
I do not want anything else, let my loved ones be with me. They are very peaceful with me, I am having fun, I am entertaining, I can have real laughter.
Be with people who are really good to you. Remove people who make you sad, hurt and cry, and even make you feel worthless. Sometimes we can't get such people out of our lives because we love them very much, but now I've learned to do that.
If I can do it, you can too.
Love your family, love your friends, animals, trees, flowers, nature, sky, rainbow, rain, sun, seasons, little stone on the ground.
If we love, our lives begin to make sense.
Love to make yourself happy.
Love your mistakes because it's your fault. Learn from this.
Love the truths you do and do more beautiful things.
Put a bowl of water on your door. Keep the animals happy. This way you are loved.
Don't pluck the flowers. Water it so it becomes more beautiful. Love him in your branch.
Love people. Smile and say hi to them. Smile, reduce the ugliness in the world a little bit.
I do these things.
Have a pet. When there is a child at home, peace comes into the house.
Bad energy in the house is going away.
Love him.
Be in love. Live your love to the fullest. Hug him, touch him, kiss him. Feel you have your heart.
Love so that spring comes. May your heart be filled with colorful flowers.
And most importantly, love yourself. Love your body, love your flaws, love your height, love your heart, love your pure and pure soul, and don't let them contaminate it.
Love your eyes, love your weight, love your hands. These you will need for life.
Loving heals everyone. Loving hides flaws.
Love what makes you feel good, don't think about the rest.
Evil is always in the foreground in life. We do not see the beauty much, but if we see the beauty, the evil will decrease. If we love, life becomes meaningful.
Love yourself .
I wish you loving days .
being alone is a need
I need to be alone.
I need to stay alone for a while to understand myself.
I want to go home separately.
I want to stay alone and learn about life.
I want to go out in the evening and spend time with my friends.
I want to discard my responsibilities and learn about my own responsibilities.
Sometimes I find it difficult to look at a lot of people.
I help my father, I do housework, I care for children, I take care of our animals, I cook every day. I am really tired.
A side, I throw the strength to prepare for the university exam, but I am so tired and fall asleep immediately.
My head is about to explode
On the one hand, my mother is making a noise, on the other hand I am about to cry from the sound of television and anger.
I'm trying to write an article, I can't get my sentences together.
If I'm alone I can open a song and write your articles, but it's not possible.
I don't have money to go home separately.
Corona doesn't allow this anyway.
I'm writing here because it feels like therapy to me. Like diary.
It has been a long time since I came to the current situation.
I get very angry and shut myself in any room and cry.
This is definitely the activity I will do in a moment.
It would be fine if I was with a hoarse song, a few drinks and my computer.
The first thing I will do in the future will be to go home separately.
The people I talk about say you're looking for an escape from home, but they don't have any of my responsibilities.
I don't want to run away from home.
I want to have my own responsibilities.
I want to be hungry when necessary, but I just want to stand up.
Only I can take care of myself in my life.
I will support myself.
They don't try to understand me a little.
Now I'll tell you what I want to be.
"I'm at my own home. I open my song and I'm cooking.
I'm listening to nostalgic songs again.
I'm telling on the one hand.
I have cooked my meal and I will set the table right that the door is knocking.
I open the door.
My friends are standing in front of me.
Bags in their hands.
I invite you inside.
We eat together. Then we put on our pajamas and sing together. We drink and sing until the morning. We talk and have fun. "
I want and need such an activity very much.
I know we are all overwhelmed at home.
But I have many, many responsibilities. Nobody understands. Except for my best friend.
While I was telling my dream, I lived in a moment.
I'm going a little bit aplamaua now.
I love you all.
I wish you a good
Friend
For me, friend is one of the most precious things in life. It comes after my family.
My friends are in my heart.
My troublemaker is my dear companion.
He is the hardest for me to break off.
The one with whom I share all my troubles is the one with my problem.
It is the one I get the most strength, the most broken.
*****
I met my best friend 9 years ago. Like every close friend, we didn't love each other very much. We had lots of good things together. We were with each other in our difficult moment. He was my biggest supporter. Of course I was for him too. We spent 9 years together. Huge 9 years.
Recently he lied to his family by giving my name and I got very angry with him. What he has done recently has also upset me. I didn't tell him, but I decided to distance.
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I met my other best friends in high school. We have been friends for about 5 years. We don't have a bad memory. We still stick together very very very tightly
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We've been friends with my next best friends for nearly 4 years. We became friends in high school 2nd grade. We don't have a very good dating story, but we love each other very much.
We supported each other in our most difficult moments.
He is one of the most peaceful people when hugged. I miss him so much.
*****
My cousin
This year we got closer. He is a very pessimistic person. We get along very well, we talk all the time, we are always looking for each other. But he's so mixed up that he sometimes overwhelms me with what he says. I'm trying to heal him, I'm trying for it, but he's never trying. But my best friend.
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I do not have many friends . Small and peaceful people. The people I trust most with whom I share everything. I am sure my friends will increase when I start college and I am sure it will be more fun. I do not lose hope for this. Energy comes to work harder. I love my friends so much.
Friend means family.
Thank you all for being a part of my life.
I love them all.
Education
I will tell you about the university exam preparation process.
I did not work. I never wanted to study. I was going to the internship. I was coming home very tired and was going to sleep right away. It was a very difficult process. When I went to school, I was trying to work but it wasn't enough.
The exam day has come. I took the exam, I had a hard time. Since I was at the same school with my closest friends, I got strength from them.
The exam is over, the results came, and I got better results than I expected. I had a lot of places to write, but I didn't want to choose it because of covid 19. Actually I do not regret it. I could not live the university life I wanted. Now I have the same lack of enthusiasm. I do not want to study and cannot adapt myself.
I know I can get better results.
You have small jobs now, I am helping my family. I am thinking of starting classes too.
I can get really good results when I work with enthusiasm, I know I lived a long time ago. Covidien and Turkey, attracts millions of suffering because of the student's educational opportunities. Despite everything, we believe. I know good things will happen because I don't think badly. I know I'm in a very complicated situation but I'm not losing hope. I would recommend it to everyone. Behind every bad event or situation there are good things.
Let's not lose hope.
Let's think good things and get good things. I wish everyone a good day.
Everything will be very nice
trust yourself and live your life
Insecurity.
One of the most common problems in society is insecurity.
Actually, I am not very self-confident, but I am not considered insecure either.
Insecure people are often in this state of criticism.
In my country, everybody criticizes each other. He focuses on someone else's life without looking at his own problems and life. It does not see its own flaws, it knows all of someone else's flaws.
Sir, there are no perfect people. Being overweight is not a fault. It is not a fault to be tall or short, to be writer.
They say you gain weight, you gain weight. Yes I know I gained weight, my body of course I notice. Same thing when you get weaker. They find excuses for everything but they think they are perfect here.
The real flaw is thoughts. It is evil in the heart. Bad thoughts about someone else are flaws. Rumors about someone else are flaws.
They are interested in what someone else has experienced in their life. They can focus on the things they want to live and the dreams they want to realize. They can take their eyes off someone else's life. There is no fault in everything. Whoever these criticisms come to, the loss of self-confidence in that person will be too much. However, people should not be so cared about.
They get jealous when they see that someone else lives the life they could not live their own. I think like this. There are people who criticize me a lot, good or bad. But I don't care what people say. I wear what I want. I live the way I want. I suggest everyone to live. This life is not meaningless enough to care about people. When we stop caring about people and what is being said, we can be even more confident. Be confident and enjoy your life. Life is short and make yourself happy. Live happy. Stay happily.
Have a nice day
it is not necessary to fall in love to cry
Crying is not a weakness.
They think that there is only one reason for crying in Turkish society. People just don't cry when they are in love.
We can cry when we are happy, unhappy, scared, excited, and more.
I cry when I get angry.
I cry if I'm sorry.
I cry even if I'm happy.
I cry when I'm scared.
I have never been in love and cried for someone.
There is no single reason to cry.
I want to tell a moment.
Years ago my cousin came to us. My grandmother saw my cousin crying.
He came and told all of us that he was crying, I think in love. He tells this to every visitor. He was in love, crying, said things like whether to be in love at this age. Whereas he was only 15 years old and they exaggerated too much.
They say that love has no age.
There is no age or time to cry either.
Do not pretend that every crying is in love. We can first ask why he is crying. Maybe he was very happy or excited. How do we know?
Our topic today was to cry and to judge without asking.
I wanted to touch on this issue because people should break your prejudices. One should not find an answer to a question without asking.
Become a more understanding society
I wish us to come.
-men dont cry
Yes, again and again one of the gender discrimination in Turkish society is the understanding that men do not cry.
Can you believe that even songs were written on it?
I think this is just nonsense and I defend it.
The men cry.
Crying is not a weakness.
It is not a shame to cry.
I always see men cry. He cries when he is happy, cries when he is sad.
That's all I have to say for now.
Hope we can be a more understanding society.
Have a nice day
@Seri
