How To Move On From That Person

Love is the one of the most pure thing in this world. It does not boast nor selfish, it makes us feel alive and happy. Love is almost addicting but it isn't always all about the unicorns and the rainbows. It does not always gives you butterflies, at times it brings you tears and sadness. Love is a rollercoaster ride that will bring you from the highest of the highs and lowest of the lows.

At one point in our life, we dreamt to be with someone who makes us feel all giddy and makes us smile but we usually end up with the person whom we can't have. Instead of making us strong, sometimes it makes us weak.

Sometimes it makes us wonder "What did I do to deserve to suffer from this?", and all the thoughts will flow in your mind together with the endless tears. It makes you want to forget love and the person you've loved.

How can we really move on from someone we wanted and needed so badly?

Remember that love isn't selfish, it pursues happiness of the person you adore so much. If you think you're not for each other anymore, one thing you really need to have and practice is ACCEPTANCE. In order for you to move forward, you need not to let yourself keep pushing to that person and asking for some available space when you know there isn't. You're not a fish in a can to let yourself be squeezed in a place where you shouldn't be in.

Accepting pain is quite a work to be done but it's an easy thing to do if you know what you deserve. Do you deserve a half and half of everything you've asked for? Do you deserve asking for the bare minimum? Do you deserve crying every night to keep up with the pain? Do you deserve asking rather than being given voluntarily? If it is love then why are you the only one working? Why are you the only one leading? If you're not served well then learn to serve you yourself. Love yourself above self. Acceptance can easily be done if you know your worth. Walk away from something that isn't serving you well. You're not a charity to always ask and wait, you're a royalty yourself that needs to be served and taken well care of.

Love is permanent and there's no really direct steps to take to forget someone and the pain they brought to your life. Moving on has its different recipes for every person but one thing is for sure, if they can't love you then do them better by loving yourself a hundred times more than they do. Accept that life is a journey and there are a lot of bus stops. A lot of people will ride and left but the most important is you reach your destination.

Keep slaying in this world full of shit.