Life is tough.
I know I am nothing compared to those older people who had already proven a lot in life. Or to those successful professionals who already have everything they want. But I must say that at this point of my life, I learned that sometimes you just have to do whatever you want as long as you know it is right and you do not hurt anyone. You just gotta be #unbothered of some things.
But then, what is the extent of this #unbothered thing?
There will always come a time when people will have something to say about your passion. They might say you are not talented enough. Or your works are not good enough so just stop it. But is that really enough reason to stop? Well, if you will consider all your hardships and you will look at your goal again, NO, whatever they are saying to put you down is not enough to make you stop!
People will always have something to say. But if you will look at it as points for improvement then it will be useful for you. Sometimes, you just have to ignore unnecessary things and just focus on the important ones. On the other hand, when should you start being bothered?
Well, be bothered if everyone, as in everyone, says something is wrong with what you are doing! Then that is the time you need to pause, look, and ask yourself. What could be it? Because sometimes people won't talk if there is really nothing wrong. So you also have to listen to them, take notes of whatever it is that is really wrong, and correct it as much as you can.
But again, always remember, if it is not necessary and if it will only slow you down or make you stop your passion, then be #unbothered!
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There are other people who are overconfident about themselves. To the point that they don't know that they're doing something wrong.
But yeah! If you know to yourself you're just doing your passion and you're not harming others, you should be unbothered.