Step-3 Focus on yourself
After you made a decision of moving forward then, that's the time you focus on yourself. Karamihan sa mga pagkakataon on why people are not able to move on easily because they made their partner their world.
Don't do that!
Hindi mo sya mundo, mahal mo sya pero hindi mo sya mundo. Ang sarili mo ang tunay mong mundo. Kailangan bago ka magmahal you have to learn how to love yourself first.
Kaya naman maraming nahihibang sa pag ibig. Don't waste your self worth because it's very important in this step. Nawalan ka ng mundo dahil nakasanayan mo nawalan kana ng pattern kung papaano. Kaya naman ang tanong lagi ay paano.
Bakit focus on yourself?
Dahil deserve mo yun, deserve mong lumigaya. Kaya naman tamang tama ang ginagawa ng iba na pagtapos ng break nagpapaganda at nagpapagwapo. Pamper yourself.
Ginagawa mo iyon sometimes because you want to someone replace that person. Ika nga nila ay rebound kung tawagin but tama ba yun?
Tamang bang maghanap ng pamalit? O Ng rebound?
I think no, because gugustuhin mo ba namaranasan din nya ang nararanasan mo ngayon? Yung hirap at sakit na pinadama sayo ay ipapadama mo rin sa kanya?
Hindi makatarungan ang ganun pero maraming gumagawa kasi effective but how that person? Do you have enough conscience to do that?
Just only focus to yourself and try to forget things that'll make you unhappy.