Step 2-MAKE A DECISION
Second thing, after you go through pain MAKE A DECISION. Anong desisyon? You have to make a decision that if you want ot pursue the relationship or you have to let it go.
I understand that "oo nga nag break na nga kami" regardless of what happened with the break up. You have to only have two options:
Either you decide to go back to that person or;
You move on
Part of the reason why it's very difficult to move on, it's because half of the time you're half baked.
Umaga palang gusto mo na makipagbalikan pagkahapon ayaw mo na. Tapos after mong makita post nya sa fb gusto mo na makipagbalikan. Tapos nung nakita mo yong may post na may kasamang iba ayaw mo na ulet.
It's just like opening your wound, alam mo yung pag may sugat ka tapos may band aid binuksanbuksan mo. Ganun yung nangyayari. So you're never gonna heal right away kung ganun ang gagawin mo. You're never gonna be able to move on. If that's what you gonna do.
So second step is that you have to decide either you want to continue or you dont want to continue.
Meron two branches yan. If ever you decided to continue with the relationship. Either you make amends to that persn kahit kasalanan nya or i don't know if that person trying to get back to you.
Well and good so that it's easier for you if that's the case, never allow that reason of break up to haunt you on the future things that you will have as a couple.
Kasi kung pinatawad mo sya halimbawa nag cheat yung partner mo tapos pinatawad mo sya but that is the cost of everything you will have moving forward.
Theres no more pointon forgiving that person of their mistake in the first place. You know that he made a mistake and it's your decision to forgive. You mean that you have to move on. So,that's like a solid decision that if you forgive go straight, wala ng balikan nun.
Hindi mo na pwedeng ibalik balik. Kasi there's no point of coming back to that relationship.
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