Be yourself, because you are you **A change is a must, but when you change for others it can never be called a change. You don't need to change for someone becauae nobody is going to change for you. Just be you.**

You can see the happiness in one's face when you change for them. You can see the happiness that enlightens their face when you be the reason for the change. Unfortunately these attitudes doesn't change in a long run because those are selfish people who just love themselves and not others. So think twice before letting your happiness down by listening to others. In marital life, once you get busy in your life you don't find time for yourself. Because once you are married means you are married to the family, whereby, your responsibilities also increase consequently attending to everybody's needs and wants. As days go by, this routine increases gradually creating a hatred within yourself. For the happiness of the famjly you are prepared to keep all your dreams apart. But how far? Are you happy with such a decison? May be this might continue for a short peiod. After which you regret for reaching nowhere inspite of your calibre. Time flies. Its human nature to realise things very late and then regret. When looking back never give a chance to regret for what you have not achieved in life. Instead strive to utilise the chance in the best possible way. When possibilities are at your reach maximum utilize it. When there is a failure never step back, instead enhance your will power and determination by repeated practice. This will only give you a positive result. **To be yourself remember these points.** ★ Never let someone change you unless you need a change. Because you know your capability, capacity and limits better than others. ★ Give primary importance to your happiness because you know where lyour happiness lies rather than others. Only if you're happy, you can spread happiness among others. ★ If you are confident in what you are doing go ahead, do not give your ears to others opinions. ★ Keep in mind, that when someone citicise you means you are perfect. People with envious nature can never withstand others success. Its an human instinct which will never change. ★ Never back off and never expect everything and everyone should be perfect. Their might be peoples in your life to lift you when you fall or turn back seeing your failure. Consider all these as a new learning experience and keep going ahead. **Being yourself is the best and bold decision, one should take forward in any path of life. Never everyone gets everything from their comfort zone. Taste the sweetness and spices of life, to face the world boldly. Their you win.**