We always envy a person who is one step ahead of us may be due to his job or his luck or his fortune etc. The list is endless. We forget to see a person who is one step behind us. And thank God for what he has given us. We have to be thankful to Almighty for what we are and what we have.
There are times when people are not what they ought to be? To name a few the main reason haunting them is imagination, influence, Obsession etc.
Imagination - Have you ever felt your imagination being your worst enemy. One keeps imagining things about others, what others are even unaware of! Never agree with your imagination unless you experience it yourself. We all go through difficult times at different times.
Gettimg influenced - Never get influenced by what you see and hear. There are times when we feel that why not I be her/ him or why not I get an opportunity to be like him.There might be untold stories behind this happiness. Be what you are and enjoy with what little you have. That happiness has no bounties.
Getting obsessed - Another quality in humans wherein one cannot ignore. Though not all, this quality seems to haunt a part of the population. People with such characters never let others grow, especially those whom they are interested in. In short, a kind of jealousy. This usually happens when a person is much in love with the other person.
Away from responsibilities- Some people make other's happy by giving them monetary help. But most of us are unaware of the fact that along with monetary help comes a large unavoidable responsibilities. Few peoples are forced to do it due to lack of money.