How to train children well✌️

Today I am talking about the training of children. As always, the training of children has been no less than a difficult test for the parents. They neglect to train In our rush to get ahead of each other, we have completely neglected to train our children and in order to fulfill their legitimate and illegitimate desires, we have forgotten the difference between halal and haraam.

Negligence of parents in training of their children⭐

They do not think that their training is important to them How is it possible after all this situation that the children who are there can become good and good moral children, their training is good and when their training is not good, the parents reject the responsibility to their friends Friends have spoiled them

company of bad friends

Then the reason for everything is made to their friends that no matter how many bad habits they have, if they have started eating Gutka or Paan or abusing them, then their friends have instilled in them at that time. If it is all because of their friends, then what are your responsibilities? What have you trained them to do? You are also their best friend.

Become your children's best friend⭐

Let's assume that the child learns everything, every habit from his friends, every good and bad thing from his friends, then why don't you make yourself a friend of the children and share everything with them. Discuss every problem and tell them the difference between good and bad so that they do not fall prey to any bad habit or bad behavior and find a good friend like you who can guide them to stop them from doing bad deeds and not to do bad deeds to them. Therefore, to the parents The most important role in the training of children is played by the mother

.Children learn less by word of mouth and more by action⭐Children's minds are like a tape recorder⭐Children's minds are like a tape recorder⭐

Children learn everything from their mother what the mother does in front of them or the habits they have are also converted into children like telling the truth or lying. It will be the same The child is most close to his mother and then talk and only when the parents are careless or do not guide them properly, then the children get worse. Do not pay much attention to or whose parents both work or whose parents are out or whose children are put in hostels. In fact, the first

eight years are special for the training of children. Training can be good, whether you make the child a robber or a doctor What you want your child to do in the future will be what you want it to be. You will see that your children will become what you are today. Don't go for it anymore. You don't pay attention to your children.

Husband and wife's bitter attitude towards each other⭐

: What you want your child to do in the future will be what you want it to be. You will see that your children will become what you are today. Don't go for it anymore. You don't pay attention to your children.

Then you have to be sensible and make friends with the children and give the children time so that the children understand you and share everything with you as their friend and not sit more than eight people outside. Yes, that's right you can now become known as a Lord of the Rings

One thing I want to say to all parents is that it is better to leave a good future for their children than to leave a good person in society.

: What we need to include in the training of children is that service to humanity is everything

Real life is what is dedicated to the well-being of humanity

It is because of this virtue of man that he has been called the best man

The best person is the one whose ability and wealth have benefited other human beings

All parents want to be able to train their children well

But even though they know a lot of good things, they don't tell their children Just thinking that he is still a child will make him understand what we are saying, but it is not so

The founder of Tablighi Jamaat Maulana Ilyas Sahib says that

It is not necessary to explain anything to the child, it is necessary to put it in his ear

The main purpose is to make the baby feel, If you do not understand, then explain why the call to prayer is given in the ear of the child at birth

: Whatever was done in front of the non-speaking children would be recorded in their minds

Children's minds are like a tape recorder⭐

It's like a record in a tape recorder and when the kids start talking So they speak in exactly the way that is recorded in their mind Just like when a tape recorder button is pressed, it starts talking

If you can't explain things to your children, be sure to tell them good things So that when they come to their senses and find a language to speak, they have it So let them do the good things that are save already in their minds

The story of the role of parents in raising children in my own words

Mary was a very capable and very intelligent girl At just six years old, she had the brains of older children She always came first in the class and was a very good girl Mary was the brightest girl in my class But then all of a sudden she became very restless and very weak in her studies

She didn't talk much to anyone and even at break time she would sit alone and think

I knew that children would do this only in two cases

The effect of parental quarrels on children⭐

Either because of parental quarrels at home or because of sexual harassment Now I decided in my heart that I would keep looking for the reason for his sadness I called Mary's parents and asked them to come to school But they would always procrastinate or make excuses that they could not come to school From their excuses I knew there was a quarrel between them When he did not come even after being called two or three times, I decided to go to their house And when I went to their house, I found out that there were really quarrels between them And I told them how much Mary was affected by their quarrels She is becoming mentally weaker than children her age You made life happy, not just for yourself, but for your daughter's good training And then in a few days I noticed a huge change in Mary Now she looked as happy and playful as before

The purpose of sharing this story with you is simply that

To what extent do parental quarrels and positive attitudes affect children Negative attitudes between husband and wife put a lot of pressure on the minds of their children