The Most Precious Blessing On Earth
Hi, today is 22th of May 2022, a new day could be a start of a new life. Always be optimistic, don't worry and take every day as a new chance to make corrections in your life. And most importantly make and feel worthy for your relationships and respect your family and parents. My today's article is about a person whose daughter born blind. The world gives more importance to mother as compared to a father. That's why I decided to write about a father who sacrifices for his daughter.
Yesterday when i was scrolling Facebook news feed, i opened a window to see videos there (when i feel bored i uses to watch Facebook videos). So what i see? I watched an Iranian Story, based on the sacrifice of an old father. What i have noticed in the video? I noticed that everyone is crying and removing tears from their cheeks with their handkerchief, I was first skipping the video, than their act of crying took my attention, i should watch the video, and this could be interesting.
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The story was about a father's love with his daughter. A young couple which gets married, and they make love, worked together, the woman gets pregnant. The man takes care of her every time, cook food for her to make her ease, he washes clothes for her when she is unable to do so, he shows love and respect at every step.
Then after that time comes, when one day the wife is dusting the home inside she feels pain of pregnancy and her man takes her to the doctor. Father is waiting outside the operation theater. He looks worried and anxious at the same time, a female doctor comes out. Handovers a baby to the father.
He feels really happy, but doctor's face doesn't looks happy, he asks a question from the doctor. (Because video hadn't the sound i can't listen that what was the question, either he was asking about the gender of the baby, or he asks that his wife is well or not? Or he asks about, why his facial expressions of doctor doesn't look good).
Then doctor answers his question, he started crying there, he got two bad news’s from the doctor at the same time, the news was very upsetting. (Doctor told him that "your wife is nor more",) he cries a lot while holding his daughter in his hands.
He buries his heavy heart and takes his daughter to home, he feeds her and grows her, and he don't even make her feel that she has no mother. He becomes both (father and mother) for her. He educates her, make her learn to make tea.
Then she gets adult and then reaches to the age of her marriage, a day when 3 women visits his home to see his daughter for a marriage relationship, she, when comes having cup of teas to serve them, they refused for marriage and making a relationship, because she was blind, they mocked her and get out of his home. She felt hurt, throws away the tray of tea, and hits her hands on the chair and table, his father hugs her, they both get hurt, i can see in the video that father is feeling helpless.
"Nothing is more hurting than wound on daughter’s heart".
The father then decided to take away the blindness of his daughter he donates his eyes to his daughter, finally operation gets successful, and she can see the colors of world now. But after a few minutes what she sees is her father is sitting on a wheel chair, and she sees her father gave his eyes to her, she cries a lot on this sacrifice. They both were crying, but i can see the satisfaction on the father's face, she was satisfied.
What lesson i have learned from this story?
I have learned that we should also promote appreciating fathers, not only the mothers. I have seen that i our society. No serial or story or a video is made to show especially the respect to fathers, in real life even the mother is on mistake in the clashes of a husband wife, the children mostly (always) support their mother, they even beat their father in this regard, but i offer mentioned that all the men aren't same, as all women aren't same.
We should respect both. And the sacrifice of father never should be ignored. But it is expressed as a highlight to show a positive face to the society.
Fathers in Asian society is a person who feeds whole family, takes all responsibilities, and we must respect them. ❤️
Parental Love Is The Only Love That Is Truly Selfless, Unconditional And Forgiving.
Our Parents Are Blessings, Do Not Delay Showing Them Love. We do not know How Long We have this blessing for.
We are so busy in growing up, we often forget that they are also growing old.
Our Parents May or may not be perfect, but they are a precious gift for us. God has ever given us.
Parents are blessing we get before asking, and then they bless us with everything we can ask for.
Do not hurt your parents for anyone, they do your best to see you happy, be with them, no matter whatever the situation will be.
Parents are blessing of Allah, Which loves you more than anything in the world.
As long as you have blessing of your parents it does not matter even if you live in the mountains.
It is one of the gravest sins to abuse one`s parents.
My parents are my backbone. Still are. They are the only group that will support you if you score zero or score 100.
Our parents were patient when we were young, now it’s our time to be patient during their old age.
Don`t ever complain about what your parents never offered you. They probably give you all they had.
A Parent`s Prayer
"God! I do not ask you for anything for me that you would watch over and protect my children is all i ask of thee. As by blessing them you are blessing me. Please make their lives long, healthy and happy, and once they are grown may you bless them with their own children."
"Should the day come when they must walk the road without me, i ask in your mercy you would see that in my absence they never walk the path alone."
"Please never let them forget that they are and always will be deeply loved by me,
Amen."
Story of a Young man With Real Life Example
How to End the Anger of Parents
I will explain it with a personal story.
A young man from a religious scholar complained that.
"My parents are more than 60 years old and are angry with me, although I provide them with everything they demand."
The religious scholar looked at the young man from head to toe and said,
′′ Son, this is the reason of their anger that you bring them what they ask for.
The young man said, ′′ I did not understand your words, please explain a little
Religious scholar said: Son, have you ever noticed that.
When you didn't come into this world, your parents had prepared everything for you before you came.
Clothes for you.
Your food arrangement
Management of your safety
Don't feel cold if it's hot, don't feel hot.
Arrangement for your rest
Your parents had arranged you even before you came to the world.
Then let's go ahead
Did your parents ever ask you if your son should get you admitted to school or not?
In the same way, have you ever asked for admission in college or university, rather, for your better future, you must have arranged admission in school and college before.
Similarly, your father would have never asked you for your uniforms for your school transport for your first job, but he would have brought you the best thing according to his capacity before you asked for it.
You may not even realize.]
When you stepped into your youth, your parents might have started looking for a good girl to serve you and take care of you.
While searching for a girl, their first priority will be to serve you, but they never thought that we should bring a bride for a son who will serve us and our son.
Clothes for you.
Your first cycle.
Your first motorcycle.
Your first school.
Your toys.
You’re talking.
Your training.
Your rhythm, colorful conversation style even the first word that comes out of your mouth. Your parents have taught you for free and taught you without your demand.
And today you say that whatever they ask from me, I bring them, even then they remain angry.
Go and start giving your parents without asking.
Start taking care of their needs like your children's needs.
If you can't help them financially, help Them Morally
Give them your precious time.
Serve them.
Take the responsibilities of your house yourself.
Just as you have become the father of your children,
Be the pious children of your parents and give them without asking.
Start it from today
Make yourself capable that they don't need to ask or demand from you or they never miss you at least. Give them that much time ask them problems
If you can't help them financially, serve them morally.
Have you ever seen the torn heels of mother or father's feet??
Have you ever put cream or oil on those torn heels like they used to apply you when you were small??
Have you ever applied oil on your mother or father's head because when you were a child, they used to apply oil on your head and comb it your mother used to do your hair, sometimes try to improve your mother's hair?
Have you ever pressed your father's feet, even though your father must have pressed you many times?
Have you ever stood with water or towel in your hand for your mother or father? Like they used to wash your face with semi-hot water in your childhood??
If you do something then
Bring them without asking.
Look at their responsibilities.
Give them time and see.
Serve them and see.
Keep them with you always.
Don't consider them a burden on you, they are a blessing to you.
Just as they did not consider you a burden, they have made you a successful person of the society by raising you day and night without any compensation. At least consider them as the reward of their same services and treat them well.
If your parents are happy with you, Allah is also happy on you.
After hearing these words of religious scholar, the young man was in tears and the eyes of the rest of the audience got wet. It is true that such advice cannot be found in any university of the world, only religious scholars can do such training May Allah keep the shadow of such scholars forever. And give every human being the ability and fortune that he knows their needs before the demands of his parents to fulfill their needs
Amen Lord of the Worlds
Thank you for Reading ❤️❤️
Indeed, parents are the most Precious gift from God. May our parents live long, Healthy & prosperous life amin sumamin