👍 What will people say? "What a short sentence! But this short line can ruin a person's life, can lead to uncertainty, can take away all peace of mind. Too much is wrong? Just judge for the moment. In reality, we all live in a society, Alhamdulillah! This is also a blessing. Being in the society means we can cooperate with each other, we can be safe, in general we live in groups, people can't live alone, it takes a family, it takes a society.
But where is the problem? The problem is, when society makes it difficult to live in society. We are being crushed by the birth of this society, but it is not possible to say with a loud face that this is the society you are listening to? I get stuck for you again and again, for fear of you I say the right thing is wrong, the rhythm of life falls again and again! These silent cries that are stuck on the left side of the chest, can not come out. Why not? Fear of this society. Who should I tell, what should I say? People will say crazy, keep it that way!
What did Allah and His Messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) say? Do we accept everything? Which one? We believe that which does not raise questions in the society. We don't do a lot of legitimate work, but we want a lot of rewards in spite of our desire. Why not?
Society! "What will people say?" We have made society an unwritten god today (Naujubillah). ঐ Will work society obey? If you don't obey, you can't do it. Sharia, lawful, unlawful, circumcision are all cold for fear of society. They are completely silent.
Such a marriage, expensive gifts must be given, otherwise what will people say! The boy / girl has passed the exam, eat kg kg of sweets, otherwise what will people say? You have to marry your daughter, you have to spend millions of rupees, otherwise what will people say! Fearing what these people will say, many people are filling the stomachs of the society by not eating, not fulfilling the needs, even after finishing the last resort, by oppressing themselves to make the society happy, by acting.
The children have grown up, but the age is low, marriage cannot be given, then what will people say (Gina Karuk no problem)? What will people say if they have more than 2/3 children (control birth, do not obey the law)? If you have an older child, you can't have another child, you have to prevent it anyway, otherwise what will people say (kill before you come into the world)?
What will people say if a girl or a boy marries a divorced / widowed girl? How to show face in society! How can I tell people that a girl is the wife of the house or a boy is her husband? Everyone in the society must be small! It's impossible! Whether the girl or the boy is good? Society will not obey. Shame on the nose, it is better to die! In order to stop the intoxication of this society, many things are said and done which are against the Shari'ah, because of which we have to be stuck on the Day of Judgment!
We feel comfortable obeying the law in our convenient, convenient place! Astagfirullah! We have become nominal Muslims today. Islam just plays outside, zero inside.
One of our giggles inside is "What will people say?" It is a great whisper of the devil. I don't know how many poets have fallen into its trap and committed sins.
In short, what is the choice of Allah, what is the choice of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) is more important than this society and the thinking of this society, "What will people say?"
We cannot get out of this thought. And if anyone wants to get out, we think it is our duty to stop him. How dare he! Society will not care? We have to stop him, or we will go bad with him! We do not think, our Lord will be happy or unhappy with this work? Will the people of this society give me an account on the Day of Judgment? Will you do me good? As much as I do not fear God, I fear people more than that! Ah! If only we had a little understanding!
No one is permanent in this society, everyone has to go before or after. Those who have hindered good deeds for fear of society have also gone to the grave and those who have not turned away from doing good deeds for fear of society have also gone to grave. The only difference will be in the record. With small work, it is easy to perform heavy acts in the scale of Meezan. But we do not fear society. "What will people say?"
What is small to me may be a big deal to someone else! In short, life is shorter than small! What could be bigger than life? We will do everything for the pleasure of Allah InshaAllah! InshaAllah, I will not turn away from good deeds for fear of people, from the deeds of Allah's choice! May Allah grant us the grace to obey only Allah. "What will people say?" Say whatever you want. I think what God will say InshaAllah!
"Yes, whoever submits himself to Allah and is a doer of good, he will be rewarded by his Lord. They have nothing to fear, nor will they grieve." (Surah 112)
It has been narrated from Hadrat Abu Hurairah Radiyallahu Anhu (أبىْ هريْرة رضى الله عنْه) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: (On the Day of Resurrection) the people will be raised according to their intention. That is, it will be used with everyone according to his intention. (Ibn Majah)
