It hurts a lot when the people closest to you are disobedient to Allah and do not consider Halal-Haram to be virtuous. Attempts to bring them to the right path in this situation often make the relationship bitter. In this case we are also wrong. We do not call them to the religion in the right way.
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Shaykh al-Islam Hafiz ibn Taymiyyah (may Allah have mercy on him) said that there is a need to coordinate three things for the work of da'wah. Those are, to have (sufficient) knowledge before inviting; Exercise humility when giving the invitation and be patient after the invitation (do not rush for quick results). [Al-Iraqiyah: 1/26; (Meaning)]
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All three points are important. There is no room for neglect in any of these. On the contrary, if you do the da'wah like yourself without following the rules, it often has an adverse effect. Then the inviter sits down and announces, ‘There is no guidance in the forehead of such and such; I understood a lot, there was no profit. '
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It is foolish to want to see instant results by inviting people affected by the extreme ignorant society around you. It is almost impossible. Therefore, those who will do the preaching must qualify for patience; The mindset of the audience must be understood; The invitation must be presented with wisdom; Give him a chance to think. Guidance is in the hands of Allah. Our job is to deliver the message in the right way. There can be no rush. And, never get frustrated and never get angry if you don't accept the invitation. (However, the head of the family is different; he can give pressure, he can show anger. It is legal. Because, if the family is not going in the right direction, he has to be held accountable. However, as much gentleness as possible is the best and best method. It is sustainable.)
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Lastly, if you want to invite people close to you (especially), you must emphasize on practical invitations rather than verbal invitations. People close to you will be more impressed not by word of mouth, but by your behavior, twenty-four hour period (work), transparency in transactions, etc. So you become the invitation material yourself. Your very existence will then serve as an invitation.
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Knowing (enough) before inviting; Exercise humility when giving the invitation and be patient after the invitation (do not rush for quick results). A combination of the three is essential.
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