In pre-Islamic Arabia, women were so neglected that they could not accept the birth of a daughter. They buried the innocent tender-hearted girl alive. When someone died, his wives were distributed among the sons in the same way that his abandoned wealth was given to the sons. Women were considered inferior to shoes. They even considered accepting women's legitimate and logical words as anti-masculine.
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Allah's Beloved Messenger came to the world and declared in clear language that, O people! If a woman is your daughter, then she is your honor. If she is a sister then she is your honor. If she is a wife then she is your life partner. And if a woman is your mother, then your paradise is under her feet.
He also gave the good news that two daughters will be born in his house and he will give them a good education, give them a good initiation and fulfill the responsibilities entrusted to them, he will be my companion in Paradise. Be with me as if two fingers are side by side.
He added that the gates of Paradise were opened for those in whose house a daughter was born.
He also gave the good news from مَنْ عَمِلَ صَالِحًا ‘Whoever does good deeds.’ مِّن ذَكَرٍ َْوْ ثُنثَى ‘Whether he is a man or a woman.’
That is, men can be saints of God by doing good deeds and worship, can be His beloved servant. In the same way, women can be saints of God by doing good deeds and worship, and can be His beloved servants. The door to becoming a saint is also open for them.
In short, Islam has given women a status that no one in the world has ever been able to give.
Propaganda of anti-Islamic forces
At present, the anti-Islamic forces have started all kinds of propaganda! They are trying to provoke Muslim women because Islam has imposed too many obligations on women. And some women in our society are also being misled by these propaganda. They think that in reality they may have been deprived of their legitimate rights. But that is not the case.
The provision of the veil in Islam
You see, first of all, they say that Islam has instructed women to stay behind the veil. In non-Muslim society, on the other hand, women can move freely. See, the matter is very simple. If a woman is on the screen, she is better for herself and also for men. Let the effect of veillessness throw Western society into an abyss; We check it a little.
# The ill effects of screenlessness in Sweden
Sweden is a rich country in Europe very close to Britain. Budget deficits are discussed in our countries and profit-based budgets are discussed in those countries. We wonder where the money will come from and where they will spend the money. The country is so rich that all the men and women of the whole country; The whole nation will be able to spend six consecutive years if the young and the old, young and old, just eat and have fun without work. There will be no financial crisis. If a person does not get a job, then as soon as the news reaches the government, that person gets twenty thousand rupees per month from the government while sitting at home. If he does not have a house, the state makes him a house. If he falls ill, the government will take care of his treatment. It also costs lakhs of rupees. The government bears all the expenses from birth to death.
In short, there is no tension in their food, clothing and shelter. All that remained was to meet the biological needs. From this side also they are independent. The country is a sex free country. Like animals, men and women can have sex with each other whenever they want. There are no restrictions. The point to note is that those who have no worries about food, clothing, or shelter, have no obstacle to meet their biological needs, while those with whom they are able to meet their needs - have no reason to worry? But even then, two things are very surprising.
The first is that the divorce rate in their society is seventy percent. More than seventy out of a hundred families are ruined due to divorce.
Second, Sweden has one of the highest suicide rates in the world. The number of people who commit suicide in this country is not found in any other country in the world. This is because there is no peace in their hearts due to shamelessness and veillessness. Men are always on the lookout for the best. Bivore is in search of women and better and better things. As a result, a life of peace is not in anyone's fortune. In a society where more than seventy women are divorced, who will be happy? As a result, they suffer from depression. Lives in mental turmoil.
Excellent effect of the screen system
Islam has instructed us to observe the veil. We enjoy its welfare. Our country has food crisis and housing crisis. Even then, not even 0.6 percent of our country is divorced. Where did we get such a happy life? How did I get such a peaceful life? This is because the restrictions of Islam still remain in our country and society. The benefits of which we are enjoying ourselves.
# The plight of unveiled women in Europe
They are independent because there is no veil in non-Muslim society; Such thinking of our Muslim women is extremely wrong. Because, the real issue is not like that at all. I saw in a factory in Europe, two girls with four boys carrying heavy loads from one place to another. I said to the manager, are you doing this by girls? He replied, what if you do not work khabi? This is the nature of women's freedom! Pulling inhuman burdens like coolies, working in factories - this is the name of women's freedom !!
In Pakistan you see big trawlers of NLC. Goes from Karachi to Peshawar. Girls also drive such huge trawlers in European countries. Like a driver drinking tea anywhere, renting a hotel at night and sleeping. Female drivers do just that. Tell me yourself, have these girls gained respect or are they being humiliated?
# Queen of the female house
Islam has not given a woman the responsibility of making a living in any part of her life. The daughter is the responsibility of the father. The father will be responsible for the maintenance of the daughter. Sister's responsibility is brother's. The brother will take care of his maintenance. The wife's responsibility is to the husband. The husband will bear all his expenses. And the responsibility of the mother belongs to the child. The child will run all his expenses.
In short, Islam does not give women the responsibility to earn in any area of her life; Rather, the mahram of women has entrusted this responsibility to men.
Islam says that women are the queen of the house. Men will earn by sweating and give it to them. Women will only raise children. Will handle housework. Judge for yourselves, who gave women real dignity? Islam or Western society?
The reason for such a gentle treatment of women
If you look closely, you will see that Islam has been gentle with women. Because Allah has given strength to men. Women, on the other hand, are physically weak. Gentle. That is why Allah has given them responsibilities in proportion to their physical ability. And men are given responsibilities in proportion to their physical ability.
Different stages of women's life
I will talk about the various stages and stages of women's life about receiving thawab or reward. This will make it clear that Islam has treated women very well!
Daughter child to be born
Islam says that when a daughter is born, Allah opens the door of mercy. If there are two daughters, they become a mercy for the father. Because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Those who have two daughters will be with me in Paradise; Such that the two fingers of the hand are side by side.
Death of unmarried daughter
The meaning of the hadith is that if an unmarried girl dies, Allah will include her in the ranks of martyrs on the Day of Resurrection.
Because, she was unmarried. Mother and father were in the family. He has preserved his honor and respect from his parents' family. She was not seen in her husband's house. Husband did not caress. Didn't enjoy life like a married girl. He has been deprived of many things in the world so Allah has shown mercy to him. He has given him the status of a martyr in the Hereafter. He will not be called a martyr in the world but on the Day of Resurrection he will be made to stand in their line. The status of a martyr will be given.
# Married girls are all raised
When a girl grows up, her parents marry her. This time she goes to her husband's family and serves him. By obedience. As well as worship Allah. The jurists have written that if an unmarried girl prays alone, she gets the reward of one prayer. And if a married girl prays one prayer, she gets the reward of twenty-one prayers. Because he has been given the responsibility of two people now. She now serves her husband and also worships Allah. When she is worshiping Allah along with her husband's service, Allah increases the reward of her worship. If he prays one prayer, he gets the reward of twenty-one prayers.
God's intercession
Allaah has recommended men for girls. It is described in the Holy Qur'an. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
وَعَاشِرُوهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ
"You live well with women."
See, in the life of the world someone's sister recommends. Someone's mother recommends. Someone recommends the game. Someone's uncle recommends. Apanjan recommends in general. But Allah Himself has recommended for women in the Qur'an. He says
وَعَاشِرُوهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ
‘Live better with women than men. Be kind and generous to them. Make a home in a loving environment. '
Sins are forgiven because of pregnancy
After marriage, when she started a family and lived a happy life with her husband, Allah once gave her the good fortune to be a mother.
Dear sisters, the meaning of Hadith Sharif is that the moment a woman becomes pregnant, Allah immediately forgives all her past sins.
Because mothers suffer from various diseases after having a child in the womb. You have to endure great pain and suffering. This time they spend in boundless hardship. That is why Allah has mercy on them. He forgives all their past sins.
When there is pain in pregnancy, the thawab is prescribed
After the child is born, the mother carries him in her womb. Doing the work of the world. Tired and grunted a lot of the time. It is narrated in the hadith that at that time the word uh came out of his mouth but Allah said to the angels, "This servant of mine is performing a great duty." Uh sound is coming out of his mouth as he could not bear the pain. Instead of his words, you should write down the reward of saying Subhanallah, Alhamdulillah, Allahu Akbar in the record
Reward due to pain
The closer the child gets to birth, the greater the mother's pain. It is narrated in the hadith that instead of the pain that a woman feels every time at this time, Allah Almighty gives the reward of freeing a slave of an Arab dynasty.
According to another hadith, whoever frees a slave, Allah will free him from Hell.
Now look at how gentle the treatment of women has been, that the reward for freeing an Arab slave is written for every pain.
A woman who dies in labor is a martyr
If a woman dies while giving birth to a child, then it has been narrated in Hadith Sharif that this woman is a martyr. On the Day of Resurrection, he will be made to stand in the line of martyrs.
# Declaration of pardon on the basis of childbirth
If the baby is born healthy. If both the mother and the child are healthy, then the hadith has been narrated in the hadith, Allah Almighty instructed an angel that he should say to that woman, O mother! Allaah has purified you from your sins as you were purified on the day you were born.
See, she has endured hardships to give birth to children and Allah has forgiven her past sins in return. She is as innocent today as she was when she came to earth.
Subhanallah! What a debt! What a wonderful reward!
# The reward of teaching God to the child
The child now grows slowly. His mother gave him education and initiation. Teaches the name of God. The meaning of Hadith Sharif is that when a child speaks the word Allah for the first time in his life, Allah immediately forgives all the past sins of his parents.
Sisters! See the mercy of my God, how He has been gracious to you!
Take the name of Allah when raising children. Take the name of Allah while sleeping. When feeding, feed in the name of Allah. Once you see the child taking the name of God.
But in the present, our daughters-in-law say mummy and papa in front of the child. Does not take the name of Allah. Ultra Modern is called Twinkle Twinkle Little Star. They don't even know the meaning of this word. If we say Allah Allah in front of children, one day he will say Allah. And the first time he says Allah, Allah will immediately forgive all the sins of his parents' past lives.
# The virtue of teaching the Qur'an to a child
When the mother sends the child to teach the Holy Qur'an. Whenever a child completes reading the entire Qur'an, Allah will immediately forgive him for all his past sins.
# The virtue of making the child Hafez
The boy or girl is admitted to the madrasa to memorize the Qur'an. If he is Hafez, if he is Hafez, the meaning of the hadith is that on the Day of Resurrection, Allah Ta'ala will crown the parents of Hafez sons and daughters with the crown of light. Whose light will be greater than the moon and the sun. Even if the sun enters a house, it will not be illuminated to the extent that it will be illuminated due to the crown of that light.
Everyone will be surprised to see those parents on the Day of Resurrection. Will ask, who is this person?
They will be told that this person is neither a prophet nor a martyr. This person is the fortunate parents who made their children the guardians of the Holy Qur'an. That is why Allah has crowned them with light.
See, Allah has made arrangements for women to be rewarded and rewarded step by step.
# Rewards for worldly work
Women work in the world. They are also rewarded for doing this. Tell me, is there a woman who does not sweep her house? Do not clean clothes? Don't cook? All these are done by women. That is why Allah Ta'ala will reward them.
I am listening to a hadith, listen carefully. Listen with your inner ear. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: If a woman arranges a mess in her husband's house, Allaah will give her a virtue. Forgive a sin. And will increase a dignity for Tahar in Paradise.
Now think about how many things women keep in their house every day. Do it as a kitchen, how many things they clean and fix.
Our mothers and sisters do hundreds of things from dawn to dusk. Their hands move all the time. But the reality is, they don't know what to do.
Our mothers and sisters only work with the intention that if people do not keep the house tidy, what will people say! Everyone will say dirty. Remember, mothers and sisters will not be rewarded for the amount of sesame seeds they work for. Because they are doing these things to show people. Doing so to make people appreciate.
It is very important to purify the intention
Purification is a very important act. At present, women are not taught anything about purifying their intentions. Remember, they will be rewarded only if their intentions are pure. Otherwise you won't get it. Since it is very important to purify the intention, I will clarify the matter with an example.
Keram writes in Olamaye, a man has built a house and installed a window in the house and made a will - light will come through this window, wind will come. This person will get light and air but will not get any reward. Another man built a house, installed windows. But he intended that the sound of the call to prayer would come through this window. It will be convenient to read the prayers on time. Because of this intention, he will get thawab, light and air.
A woman is cooking curry. The curry gave a little more water during cooking. He immediately decided that the guest should actually be treated as a guest. Neighbors can be assisted if needed. This woman will get the reward of feeding the guest or neighbor because of the intentional increase of water by the guest or neighbor.
Now tell me, is there any woman who cannot take this reward? Everyone can take it. But they are deprived of these due to lack of religious knowledge.
That is why the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:
Seeking knowledge is a duty on all Muslims and Muslims.
"It is obligatory on every Muslim man and woman to seek religious knowledge."
This means that religious education is also obligatory for women. But the reality is that women are so far removed from religious knowledge that they do not even know how to take a bath. It is a far cry to know masala.
# For what purpose will you clean the house?
Women usually clean the house with the intention of saying what people will say when they see the house dirty.
My dear sisters! Don't look at what people say; Rather, remember the words of Allah when cleaning the house, Allah says, إِنَّ اللَّهَ يُحِبُّ التَّوَّابِينَ وَيُحِبُّ الْمُتَطَهِّرِينَ ‘Surely Allah loves those who repent and those who purify themselves’.
What does this mean? This means that the inside is cleansed through repentance. The outside is cleaned by cleaning the house. This means that Allah is pleased with the person who keeps the outside clean and Allah is pleased with the person who keeps the inside clean.
That is why women should make the intention while cleaning the house that Allah loves cleanliness. And the instruction of the Shari'ah, التَهُورُ شَطْرُ الْإِيمَانِ, "Purity is half of faith."
So make this intention Rasoolullah বলেছেন said to be clean is half of faith. God loves those who are clean, so I am clean.
My dear sisters! If you clean the house with this intention, make furniture, iron clothes, then Allah will reward you for every deed.
Because your intention has been purified. You have done this according to the command of Allah and His Messenger. You have to satisfy them so that you will be rewarded for your every action.
# Virtue of coming to see parents after marriage
After marriage, every girl comes to visit her parents. But what is their intention? I'm going to see my mother, I'm going for a walk - that's all.
It is narrated in Hadith Sharif that after marriage, when a girl goes to see her parents with the permission of her husband. And when you go, make up your mind, God will be pleased with it. In return for this intention, Allah will give him one hundred virtues at every step. Forgive one hundred sins and increase one hundred ranks in Paradise.
See, what is the benefit of purifying intention!
According to another hadith, when the daughter came to her mother's house from her husband's house. He came and looked at his parents with loving eyes. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Allaah will give him the reward of an accepted Hajj or Umrah.
The Companions said, O Messenger of Allah! If someone sees his parents with love again and again, will he get this reward? The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) replied: The more he sees, the more he will continue to receive the reward of Hajj or 'Umrah.
# The root cause of children not getting proper education
Today's girls become mothers. But he does not know how to teach children, how to make them human. They did not get training themselves, what to teach children! This is the main problem in our society today. That is why the children of our society do not get proper education.
At one time mothers tried their best to make their children human. I am telling you an incident. Through this you will be able to understand how good women initiate their children! How people make them.
# Qutbuddin Aunty's childhood incident
Hazrat Khwaja Qutbuddin Bakhtiyar's aunt Rah was a great elder in Delhi. Who was considered the pir of the Mughal emperors. I saw his tomb. Very close to the Qutub Minar. This minaret is named after him. His real name is Qutbuddin. But by adding the word kaki to the name, it is called Qutbuddin Kaki. Kaki is a Hindi word. This word means bread.
There is a famous incident of his childhood. He has just started coming and going to the madrasa. Then his parents thought, we will give our child a good education. And the first step is to inculcate in his heart that he should run towards Allah in all matters. That is, they thought that the boy should be taught faith first. He wants everything from Allah. All matters are focused on God. This will create trust in him towards Allah alone. His relationship will be with Khaleq instead of Makhluk.
However, for this purpose his mother adopted a strategy. The next day, before the baby Bakhtiyar's aunt came from the madrasa, his mother cooked the food and hid it in one place.
Bakhtiyar's aunt came back from the madrasa and told her mother that she was hungry. Let me eat.
Mom said, Dad! You have to ask God for food. You ask God for food. He will give it to you.
Bakhtiyar's aunt said, how to ask God?
The mother said, "Pray to Allah by spreading Jainamaz." Tell God, God! I'm hungry. You give me food. God will surely give you food.
The little child spread the Jainamaz according to his mother's words. Then the two innocent hands raised to the sky. From the mouth of the innocent comes out broken words, some words and prayers. He continues to say, God! I'm hungry. You give me food. I can't stand it. Give me a quick meal. I'm very hungry.
After the prayer, the mother said, father! You prayed. You have asked God for food. GOD has sent you food. You look around.
Innocent children keep searching here and there in the house with a simple mind. Finding food in one place. The child eats happily.
From then on it became his daily habit. Mother has already prepared the food and hid it somewhere. When the child comes back from the madrasa, Jainamaz asks Allah for more food - Allah has given me food.
Seeing the boy begging Allah in this way, the mother's mind danced happily. My son, God wants! Turning to God! Going towards Khaleq instead of Makhluk! Wanting Khaleq! Mom is so happy !!
At the end of the prayer, he started looking for food here and there. At one time he got food. He gives thanks to Allah by eating and drinking.
One day Bakhtiyar's aunt's mother went to a relative's house for some need. Go there and forget about the boy. Suddenly he remembered. The boy has just returned from the madrasa. Today I did not leave the food cooked. God knows best, what happens today! This thought made my mother cry. Quickly walk towards the house. And keep praying to God in your mind, O God! I used this method to instill faith in you in the heart of my child, to strengthen the faith. Today I made a mistake. I couldn't leave food for him. By now he may have returned from the madrasa. I want food for you. Praying. O Allah! Have mercy on me Don't divulge my secret.
Bakhtiyar's aunt's mother kept crying and praying to Allah admitting her mistake.
But the mother was surprised to come home! You see, the boy is sleeping comfortably under his oath! He thought he might have fallen asleep because he was so hungry.
So he made instant food and hid it. The boy woke up. Mom said, Dad you may be more hungry today.
Bakhtiyar's aunt replied, I came back from the madrasa, spread Jain prayers and asked Allah for food, Allah! I'm very hungry. You give me food early. I don't have a mother today. Give me better food today. After finishing the prayer, I looked around and saw food lying on the bed. I ate. Mom! Today's meal was more fun to eat. I have never eaten such food.
My dear sister! There was a time when mothers instilled faith in their children's hearts. The relationship with God.
Is there any mother today who can say that I have created complete faith in God in the heart of my child? Is there a mother who teaches her child in the morning and in the afternoon that the father must always tell the truth?
We do not pay attention to these issues at all. We don't even think that these are essential to us, the very foundation of a child's future!
If the father gives a little advice, says something, the mother answers immediately, it will be fine when he grows up. But the nature of childhood is not corrected even in seventy years.
Nowadays, when boys and girls are not given proper education, when they grow up, they push their parents away. He hates them as he hates sin. There was a time when girls used to recite Surah Yaseen with the child in their arms after Fajr. Surah Waqia was recited in the evening. He used to recite the Qur'an. Where is the mother who will recite the Qur'an with her child in her lap after Fajr today? The situation is still such that the mother is asleep in the morning. The baby also sleeps. As evening falls, the mother sits in front of the TV with the baby in her arms. Meanwhile, the baby drinks milk and the mother watches movies.
O mothers! When you watch movies, listen to music, and in this case your child starts drinking milk! You tell me, what will happen to your son Jonaid Baghdadi ?! How will Abdul Quader Jilani ?!
The deep relationship of a female Companion with the Qur'an
My dear sisters! Listen, listen carefully. Just as men can be loved by God in worship, so women can have a relationship with God by worshiping God. They too can receive the blessings of Allah.
A woman recites three verses of the Qur'an while making bread in the oven. On the one hand he is making bread and on the other hand he is reciting the Qur'an. From the bread, his three verses became the recitation of the Qur'an.
Interest in the worship of Fatima Razi
There was a time when women worked all day and stayed up all night praying. There is a narration about Hazrat Fatima, the long night of winter. After the Asr prayers, he stood for two rak'ats of Nafl prayers and recited the Holy Qur'an. Both body and mind were in full swing. The more he recites, the more he enjoys it. Salam looked back and saw that it was time for Fajr. He kept crying and saying, O Allah! How short your night has become, the night is over after praying two rak'ats.
My dear sisters! They would end the night in two rak'at prayers and complain of being short. And at present we are not united in the fate of the five daily prayers.
Riji is blessed by the Chashat prayer
There were also times when husbands went out for business purposes. The wives would spread Jainamaz and stand for Chashat. The wives used to raise their hands and pray to Allah, O Allah! My husband is out of the house for halal riziq. You bless his work. Bless Riji.
At home the wives would weep and pray to Allah and Allah would arrange for their husbands to work. He would make the business beautiful. He used to bless Riji.
# Summary
In Muslim society, women are the queen of the house. Therefore, the overall environment of the house depends on the religion of women. If women are virtuous, if they have honest character, then children will also be virtuous. Will have good character. Religion will be created among them too.
Therefore, it is especially important for Muslim women to work hard for religious education and good initiation. Someone nice said-
Men read, people read
The woman read the family read
‘When men are educated, individuals are educated. And when women are educated, the whole family is educated. '
An English scholar said, "Give me an ideal mother, I will give you an ideal nation."
At present, the most important demand of the time is to give importance to the education of Muslim women. So that our next generation can learn deen from mother. The love of religion in the heart can create love for Allah and spread the light all over the world by becoming a character of the Prophet. The moon can radiate like the sun.
And the last claim is that praise be to Allah, the Lord of the worlds
