Before we start our discussion, i'd rather appeal to the men in here that are either reading from this article or not and of course men all over the world to please accept this discuss as one that is aimed at not sterring up a competition in anyway, or one that seek to divide the gender base but rather aimed for the purpose of a quality check, research methodology and corrective tendencies so to say. So we start.

In the begining we were told @ genesis chapter one that God created the heavens and the earth and that the earth was without form, so he (God) then decided to give boundaries to waters that includes oceans, sea, rivers, streams and many other body of waters. He (God) also ensured that the day that was well differentiating from the night that means rest or sleeping time after much rigourous activities during the day are over needing only to rest the bones as the best option given the fact that there's yet another rigourous day that is waiting in the wings for the next struggle to continue.

Then he (God) decided to make man out of the dust and to breathe into him, the breathe of life and man became a living soul. What a prospect of a free gift of life given to man by his creator and God. Then still according to that same bible account at genesis, God then decided to make (Adam) to fall into a very deep sleep and from the too many ribs (pls take not of the word, "the too many ribs of his ribs") of his ribs, he took just one and formed the woman with it.

Looking at the above expression, "the too many ribs of his ribs", shows the fact that a woman or women were made out of a man isn't it? Yes, this statement is very correct of women little wonder they are to be assigned much more honour as the weaker vessels in the set order of things (according to 1 Peter 3:7). It should be understood that women and men are alike in these whole situations.

Haven heard all that, then let us begin to analyse the real reasons why we must accord women much honour especially as the weaker vessels.

Birth giving.

A woman though was created or formed out of the too many ribs of a man, yet it is the responsibilities of a mother(s) to birth a child and bring forth souls into the world irrespective of gender. It should be recollected that most times if not at all times, that such birth giving do come in so much pangs that lives are sometimes lost not to even talk about the many inducing medication they(mothers) are subjected to during this process. Therefore and with that alone, i say to you, assign them honour.

Endurance

Women generally have been able to cultivate that spirit of endurance(that seem so elusive amongst men) in their approach to their daily life. How do we know this? If you had paid much attention or had followed through on this article at the first sub heading - birth giving, you'll for sure realise that it requires much patience and endurance for a woman to carry yet another soul of its kind in her womb for a complete ovulation period of nine(9) good months before birth and that requires much patience and endurance in making that a possiblity. At this stage after birth, she nutures her child in the most carefulness of means that are best possibly known to her amidst other many time demanding she also has learnt to engage herslf with during and after the period of child birth. This period is however seen as the most difficult of her entire life as she's means to rather ensure that her other home duties which includes seeing that her husband's needs are all met even when it's very obvious that she's got no helper in her God given role. To that extent, I ask, isn't worth according her the most honour?

She Wakes up early in the morning to get things done and runs home as fast as her legs could carry her in order to meet up with the same target.

Mothers for me are a very tireless specie that are capable of doing things without raising an eyebrawl. Most times, i've been left to wonder if they are actually from this planet earth cos they do things so much like a remote controlled robot that is most sophisticatedly built to respond to home call activities almost at the nick of time, What a surprise the womanhood will continue to mean to me even to times indefinite.

"She wakes up early in the morning to get things done and runs home as fast as her legs could carry her in order to meet up with the same target". This expression take it or leave it gives the room for the right judgement of women as the almost "near perfect specie" than we their rival specie in this regard. Pls take note of that statement here, "we their rival specie", What that statement implies is that I am very much included here being a man and as such, I do well to implore all the other men not to feel bad that all the honours here are being assigned to the women due to their relative importance in the family line and the society at large, hence I say to you, respect the women and assign them honour.

Don' you ever feel protectrd by her protective instinct? If you don't, I do.

Yes and Yes! I feel very much protectrd by that protective instinct only a mother can give more. The pride of lions are seen as the kings of the beasts or better still, the most successful animals given their high rate of chances of getting enough food for their pride for the only reason that they work together in order to achieve that feat. When they succeed in taking down a prey, What you see is the tireless efforts of the lionesses in this regard and their display of a motherly instinct by the way of allowing their cubs feed first before they will then have the pleasure of devouring it whole. That is exactly how our dear mothers behave in the real life situations. They often go to bed hungry just to ensure their children have something to fill their hungry stomach with as much as they make sure that things are done just at the right in a way of giving such service delivery at its best. For this reason, don't you think that women generally deserves to be given the much needed respect?

In all, whether we are very much high on a position of authority and weilds so much power or those of economic or financial privlege of bouyancy, let us remember and put to heart at all times that just as a man was but not a leaving soul until he then received the breathe of life from God and became a living soul, so also would a man not have amounted to nothing without a woman for there's an adage that says; "behind every successful man, there's always a woman". I don't know if that adage will go down well with you but to me, there's a 100% truism in the statement and I well align myself with it.

Let us always try as much as we can to remember the good and wonderful role women play in our lives and the society at large and then learn to appreciate them the most.

Than you for reading through!

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