It is pertinent to know that dating and Courtship is a phenomenon that require everyday knowledge and understanding of the opposite sex if you really want to achieve positive motive.
People will easily see negative aspect of their partners but the question is, is there any effort to study your partner? Among which you need to know. How was he or she brought up? In which environment does he or she grow up? The type of friends and people he or she associate with on a daily basis?
All these will help to determine if one can actually cope with ones partner.
Another thing one need to understand is, love is Divine. If it doesn't come naturally it is never real. If it comes out of your love for the material things possessed by the opposite sex once those things start reducing then you the love disappear gradually.
To end with, Perfection is never measured by hard work but by how much you could love.