Why do people have to be alone?

I could start this article by saying that loneliness is one of the most serious problems of society, a problem that only we humans can solve through understanding and kindness.

How do we understand loneliness?

Why do we sometimes need this?

What can we do to avoid the risk of being alone?

There are only a few questions that I will try to analyze together with you, maybe we will have a clear answer despite the fact that no one has succeeded in hundreds of years of analysis.

How we understand loneliness.

Like any person, I want to have someone to share good and bad with and to have someone to discuss various everyday or household problems with, and of course I can only do this with a person, not with a thing or an object. When that person is missing, I will seek refuge in other activities such as television, internet, social platforms, going out in the community, walking in the park.

But these activities only occupy a certain period of the day and everything changes when the evening comes and you are alone between the walls of your house.

Why we sometimes need solitude

There are also situations when we really need to be alone, maybe after a tiring day at work or after some heated discussions with our life partner, and we try to clear our thoughts and put everything in order.

I don't think there is anyone among us who hasn't hoped, at least, for a few moments of solitude in the hectic moments of a day crowded with various everyday problems. Those moments when you think only of the waves of the sea or the blue of the sky and you are not interested in anything that happens around you.

What can we do to avoid the risk of being alone?

Here, the problem is a little more complicated, it depends a lot on the circumstances in which or which made you lonely. I know people who had families, had children, had neighbors and at the moment they ended up living alone.

Here loneliness, or in the example given above, maybe loneliness was more imposed because it was the only option for everyone to be quiet. Although they are people who specialize in reconciling other people, things can get complicated and there is no chance of reconciliation and then it is best to be alone.

Socializing

Although there are also people who do not have tangents with the online environment or do not leave the house too often, socializing is one of the most beneficial ways to make friends who in turn can become close people and who at some point will eliminate loneliness in your life.

The bigger problem is that because of this loneliness, we can end up doing things that we can regret or, worse, give up on having contact with our peers.