From the very young age of his nails, between his mother’s tender chest and the pampering of his generous father, he used to see the world with the eyes of an innocent child, talk with his toys and hear its voices, give them orders and draw stories and stories to them. Enjoyable, until his age and increased his age; His worry, his sadness accumulated, his anxiety increased, and his pain enabled his tender and white heart, and his steadfastness restricted him and prevented him from inhibitions.
Perhaps this is the path of many of us ..
Here is the most important question, see what caused this shift in your life from a life of simplicity and pleasure to a life of complexity and anxiety?
Perhaps there are many reasons for this transformation, and views differ in enumerating those causes. Some see bearing responsibility as a cause, and some see conditions as a cause, and some see life stress as a cause.
But I see that they are two main reasons, the first is the wrong convictions that I was brought up with, which is mostly extreme convictions, either towards the exaggeration in the white view of life that life is easy and simple and all people are good and love all good and you will not find those who are supportive and loving, or towards the exaggeration in the black view of life that Life is complicated and cruel, people are all bad, and you will not find anything but frustrated and haters.
And deeper than that, the second reason is expectations !! Whether with regard to yourself that you will succeed in every step you take, when you take the step and fail, you become frustrated and your mental image of yourself changes from a positive image to a negative one, and your expectations towards others towards the son that he will achieve many of your dreams do not achieve and you will be disappointed, towards the husband as the knight of dreams that flies in you With the white horse or towards the wife you see the dream girl wearing the white dress, and of course you find from the other side what is without expectation or even reversing your lashes, towards a friend, colleague, neighbor or relative.
When you find what you do not expect, your psychological pain increases .. From the heart, I tell you to adjust the standard of your expectations towards yourself and others and accept the good and the bad equally, and review convictions that get rid of everything that is negative or exaggerated, O owner of a large body and a small heart that must grow.
Thus is life .