We have grown up on the regrets of our people over our present time and the radical change that has befallen us. We have grown up on their stories about their simple happy life and their good times, as they call it.
They did not have that spirituality that forces them to be of a different inclination from the rest of them. To be the best, forgets himself and his happiness and everything in search of distinction and the feeling of being the best that illusion that turned our life into chaos, mingling with it between the vortices of lack of self-confidence and feeling unhappy and lonely forgetting our lives forcing ourselves to delve into things we do not like just to feel We only obtain this illusion (the illusion of idealism).
Illusion of idealism
Idealism or the "illusion of idealism" as I call it is a term that everyone seeks to attain and excel in or just unhealthy trying to be the best in order to be told that they are perfect. Studies of 40,000 university students in North America suffer from the obsession of perfection, which increased by 33% between 1989-2016.
Did you know that most of the suicides of children and youth, by 70%, seek perfection and idealism of those who burden them with high expectations about themselves and in another study most of the suicides described them as their loved ones "idealists" and that the obsession of idealism affects the human physical health and is associated with an obsession with idealism High blood pressure and infection in some heart diseases.
Healthy idealism and unhealthy idealism
The researchers say in this regard: “It is not surprising that perfectionism is associated with organic diseases. The relentless pursuit of perfection is nothing but a recipe for living in chronic stress.” Someone asks how I know the healthy ideal about the unhealthy idealism is the one that accompanies you in your performance, not the one that seeks after it and In the labyrinths of life, it takes you to paths that have no end except for your life, the healthy idealism that leads you towards achieving psychological perfection to achieving self-satisfaction in order to see yourself better than before.
Where it was found that one of the most dangerous types of the obsession with perfection defined by society is that you strive for perfection to satisfy society and satisfy the parents, as the suicides out of 70% were seeking perfection to satisfy their parents.
So..
The idealism of health is for yourself with yourself.
Idealism was found to get out of the vault of ignorance to ascend to earth, i.e. to achieve successful, correct steps.
Idealism and the pursuit of it are nothing but a motivation for advancement and self-improvement, not seeking to end your life in an ideal way.
