The way our desi relationship going on!
21th August 2022, Sunday I had no desire to write such a content and such a topic never came to mind. But a recent incident happened with my friend who presented the relationship situation with a girl from our country and I want to highlight the reality of relationship in this country.
After getting admission in the university, any boy or girl has a little tendency to find a partner with whom to share any happy or sad matter. Then they get involved in normal or physical relationship. Then comes the tendency to get married. If you think that after that they get married and the family continues beautifully then you are wrong. Because no work is easy in our country, especially getting married from a relationship. Because in our country the relationship between a boy and a girl is not accepted by their family in 99% cases. This is the main reason
Girls mostly prefer peers as their partners.
Most of the families in our country want to marry the girls at a young age.
If the partner is of the same age, the son's career and finding a job will take a long time to settle down. So there is no future
Good boys don't get involved in relationships, that is, a guy who is in a relationship with a girl is bad. Etc
Then a friend of mine proposed a relationship to his classmate of the same age in first year and now in fourth year he is worried about marriage. The main obstacle in their relationship is their family. In this case, the reasons from his home asking my friend to stay away from this relationship are:
So that he likes his house is far away
Since the boy is studying in the university, he may have a tendency to take different types of drugs.
The boy is unemployed, it will take a long time to settle down with a job.
If you marry the one you like, no one in the house will accept you, you have to leave the house completely.
If you marry a lover, your father will die of a heart attack, so you cannot marry by your choice.
People of the society will say bad if you get married with another boy
Boy does not work in government
Now if my friend marries the one he likes he has to go against his family. It is said that his relationship with the family should be severed. People of this country never want their son or daughter to marry the person of their choice. Instead, everyone in the family wants to marry their child to a government employee or someone who has a lot of money. In that case even if the son is an old man there is no problem because he has money. In the family, these people think that money is the source of all happiness, but they do not believe that adjustment is necessary. Because a 40 year old boy never adjusts to a 15 year old girl.
