Rabindranath Thakur, the world poet, wrote about love, Write my name in the temple of your mind as much as you love. He said this because emotional love is usually deep and all human feelings are shared with someone special. Whose name is written in the temple of the mind, people still love. And for this love you may think the world is so beautiful.
Loving someone and falling in love with someone is not really the same thing. Feeling we have 'Run out of gas' emotionally and emotionally.
Falling in love with someone means falling in love with someone, the feeling of getting close to someone and creating a desire to get close to someone. And to love someone means to feel close to them, ignoring the physical relationship. Here are some differences between loving someone and falling in love with someone-
1. Love is made:
Love is purely emotional. It is made in the human mind. You can't fall in love with someone if you want to if your mind doesn't accept it. Love is a force that will take control of everything you do. And then you will be forced to listen to the instructions of your mind. This will surprise you. You never know when love will end. Because it is much faster. Everyone is unaware.
2. Falling in love with someone means putting them first:
The one you love or the one you fall in love with must give you a place first. In this case, the two things are the same. You will try to do everything for those you love. You will be the first to come forward to fulfill their desires and will continue to try your best to fulfill them. And the one who loves you will want to get the same. But the one you are in love with may not put you in the first place before Saba.
3. Differences between rights and partnerships:
Your parents love you because they have a right to you. You also love your siblings and good friends. But when you want to build a relationship with a good friend or fall in love with him, you may think of partnership. Trust someone when you fall in love with them. In that relationship, your reaction will be the same as his. To have a relationship with someone means a little more than rights.
Clinical psychologist Dr. Joshua Klapao says you take care of your partner but don't want them, take care of him but don't feel the need to approach, take care of your partner but don't want to share anything with him; Then you will understand that you love your partner but have not been able to build a relationship with him.
4. To fall in love with someone means to do everything for their happiness:
When you build a relationship or fall in love with someone, you try to do everything for them. You try to be with him. Never want to be separated from him. However you must give personal freedom to the one you love. He should not be stuck with you. Again, he must be ready to give up the hope of getting close to him all the time. You must give your partner a chance to live a balanced and happy life. And you have to accept this.
5. Falling in love with someone all the time:
Falling in love with someone is forever. And love for someone can end at any time. Someone you love can start a fight with you about anything. This relationship may be temporary. But falling in love with someone is not so temporary. This kind of relationship will not end in any bad times and fights. If you truly fall in love with someone, you will try to be happy. You never have to worry about this. Because you truly love this.
After all, love is a condition that you need for the happiness of another person. And because of this you can only be happy.