Hello friends, I hope you are all well and I will give you some information about raising children today. I hope you will like it.
* From birth to weaning *
Eat halal yourself and also feed the child halal on time, sew it on time, keep it clean and tidy, do not keep it in a permanent dirty pamper and give maximum rest.
* 2 years to 6 years *
Teach broad Islamic beliefs, beliefs, religious phrases, prophetic events and important etiquettes of life (sleeping, eating, wearing, toilet, travel, riding, etc.) and basic rights (parents, uncles, families, etc.), and entertainment In the meantime, separate from the parents' room.
* 7 years to 10 years *
Get acquainted (gain, obtain) with present-day techniques that came from the Holy Prophet (sws) and the Companions of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). Do events and other literary novels, in the meantime separate the beds of brothers and sisters, this is the best time to memorize the Holy Qur'an.
* 10 years to 15 years *
Apply the basic rules of adolescence and educational matters, the art of speaking, the style of conversation, the interpretation and delicacy of the situation, teach to be confidential, send the boy to the business place with the father and the girl with the mother Apply in
At this age, put the responsibility of doing your work on the children and also help the younger siblings to do their work.
Pay attention to your friends and keep an eye on their sitting and taking off, keep an eye on their sleeping style and demeanor, also look at what you wear, teach according to the weather.
Give a simple mobile phone for fifteen years or so but keep it completely away from social media.
At this age, pay close attention to the sense of responsibility and education, such as bill submission, accounting with the milkman, contacting the laundress, inquiring about finances, etc., also start paying expenses, but all kinds of waste (money and non-work) Avoid, this is the beginning of the age of fully
At this age, instead of being strict, explain like a friend, keep the children busy with love training.
* 15 years to 22 years *
At this age, instead of reprimanding, train in a psychological way, look at the child's psyche and then take it with you, make the children friends and your helper, take them for fun too, but legitimate fun and veiled!
Until you are fully mature, keep away from social media as much as possible, send the child to the society as needed (move) but reduce the sending of girls, for them these days are a veil, from now on it will be a veil. How will the importance of?
Friends of this age either get along very well, they make life or ruin the life of your children, it requires a lot of attention in this age, in this age all the basic rules of Shariah must be learned before 18 years Such as beliefs, worship and society!
It is good if the girl's relationship also happens at the same time.
* 22 years to 25 years *
In this age, the boy should be related, give some income and family responsibilities along with education, and teach marriage, divorce, 'iddah and family issues before marriage. When marriage takes place, do not separate immediately, but together for some time. Keep it, then separate, quick separation is causing problems nowadays, yes! There is nothing wrong with taking a portion or a house nearby, but keep it for a while as needed