Talk to the women who cook at home today that the food that you sisters cook goes into the bodies of your family members and that is what becomes the food of their bodies. And the food you make has a huge negative or positive effect on the people in the house. Now it depends on the way you cook.
If you don't take care of your cleanliness while cooking, cook with carelessness, there is no blanket on your head while cooking, there is gossip while cooking or gossiping, backbiting, If you are arguing with your husband or scolding your children or have a negative attitude towards anything, then Allah knows for sure that all the blessings of the food produced during this time will be blown away before the food enters the body and produces light. Now the same food will go into the bodies of the family and create oppression and provoke them to more evils.
Therefore, women who prepare food should first perform wudu ', put a dupatta on their heads and prepare food with dhikr and contemplation, while preparing meaningful food, keep their tongues wet with the remembrance of Allah instead of nonsense so that men, including men The effects of goodness will be felt in the hearts of all the family members and many evils will be removed.
In the time of the Prophet (peace be upon him) it was the custom of the Companions that when they went to prepare food, they would first perform ablution and then take a step forward, and while preparing food, they would engage in the remembrance of Allah with their tongues. This was also the practice of the wives of the great saints, who not only moved their hands while cooking, but also engaged in the remembrance of Allah with their tongues and hearts.
These deeds of a woman bring blessings in food, enlightenment in food and I tell you with full conviction that if you feed the children properly, your obedience will be instilled in the children. If you feed this food to your husband, then with the blessing of remembrance of God Almighty, love and affection for you will increase in the heart of the husband.