So you're wondering why your family and friends don't respect you, and you're trying to figure out why your advise, ideas, or even what you're doing in your life aren't respected. Perhaps you've done something recently or over a period of time that has caused you to lose respect from those around you. So you've come to the realisation that you need to do something different. So, where do you begin? So, what exactly do you do? What's the first thing you should do? Is this really going to make a difference in terms of regaining this respect?
Especially when it comes to coworkers and family friends. They've been watching you, learning about your personality and observing your behaviour. But keep in mind that your actions and demeanour are either gaining or losing respect. You may not even be aware of what you're doing to lose respect. and you believed you were fine the whole time. But now you're realising that no one is paying attention to you or that your ideas aren't even being considered. So, let's look at what we need to focus on in order to achieve this adjustment.
Avoid exaggeration
exaggeration, you will, without a doubt, lose respect over time. if you exaggerate about a storey, a situation, a fishing trip, or what you're doing. However, when you start stretching the truth, changing it, and manipulating it, people notice. and you might think it's amusing or entertaining to do it that way. People, on the other hand, learn not to listen to you because they can't know what's true. I'm aware that we occasionally exaggerate to get people's attention. People, on the other hand, are becoming increasingly knowledgeable in determining who is telling the truth and who is not.
and when you're caught in those exaggerating moments what happens is you are losing those brownie points like crazy. and you are losing respect. now like I said you could be using to gain respect. Thinking you're gaining the attention of others but it's hurting you. and you right now I know you could say that you're not doing this but you need to pay attention because you probably are. because it is the number one reason why people would not respect you. because they can't trust you, they don't know what's coming out your mouth is true or false or partial or way overdone they don't know they don't know.
And when you're caught in those exaggerating moments, you're going to lose a lot of brownie points. You're also losing credibility. As I already stated, you might use this to earn respect. You may think you're earning attention from others, but it's actually hurting you. And while you may claim that you are not doing this right now, you should pay attention because you most likely are. because it is the most common explanation for people's lack of regard for you. They can't trust you because they don't know whether what comes out of your lips is real or untrue, partial or overdone; they don't know.
Avoid sarcasm
Sarcasm appears to be something that isn't that big of a deal. It's that additional little you know ribbon of your buddies making fun of something, laughing about it, criticising it. However, you will undoubtedly lose respect as a result of these actions. Make sure you're paying attention and understanding what's going on, and that you start right now. Keep an eye out for sarcasm and exaggeration in the interactions you're having with others. because you might be completely immersed in it and be completely unaware of it. But it has to begin right now. You may know people who are unconcerned about respect, but it will eventually catch up with them.
Create a daily routine for yourself.
A person with a high level of self-obedience exudes a vibe and behaves in a way that is to be appreciated. Living a respectful life is the quickest approach to gain other people's respect. What is your daily routine now? A daily routine is when you wake up in the morning and have three, four, or five tasks to complete. It is, however, on a timetable. Every morning, you get up and go through the motions of doing this and that. You're not only following a daily regimen, but you're also keeping track of your progress. You could, for example, make a small chart on your phone or create yourself a tracking chart. Choose three to five things that inspire or strengthen you in the morning. You also look at the chart. Along the way, place a little box and a little check in each of those boxes. Have a morning routine and an evening routine, so you have a morning routine and an evening routine. So you begin the day with some self-obedience and conclude it with a high level of self-obedience.
Now, because you're listening to yourself and following your own directions, you start to respect yourself, which leads to an increase in social respect. How can you expect someone to appreciate you if you're exaggerating or sarcastic? And what's more, what if you're not taking care of yourself by sticking to a schedule or routine? Now, how long do you plan on doing this? So you're going to do that for the rest of your life. A regimen improves your self-esteem by increasing your self-confidence and self-mastery. and this is something that is highly regarded.
Providing assistance to others
A person who is not appreciated for taking advantage of people's resources, such as their time and intelligence. But, instead of being the taker or the receiver all of the time, how about being the giver? because someone who serves and offers earns a lot of respect since they are putting themselves out there and trying to make a positive difference in other people's lives.
Now, seize up the day and earn that respect you deserved!