It starts with 'Ask Out'. Then ‘hang out’. Then the ‘make out’ stage goes in different ways. No one says out loud what happens next. Because that is 'get out'. And through all these things, one more thing is out of life, that is happiness!
This ‘outing culture’ is the current ‘fashion’ of our young society. It used to start at varsity, and now children come out of school holding hands! The problem is, it's very important to everyone right now. Life is a failure if there is no one to hang out with. Those who are already in a relationship are not happy about the future. Some people play the ever-new game of breaking up. Someone again maintains the relationship in various ways, imitating the activities of Hindi film to find diversity in life. And, holding their hands বসে sitting side by side হাস laughing and flirting, others tickle terribly. That's why our youngsters jump into the fray in search of a worthy partner, thinking it is their duty to do 'make out'!
‘Bangladesh is looking for you’ — this invitation begins with the mourning of money behind cosmetics-branded clothes, and the mourning of time behind Adda-Facebook. ‘One or the other must be’ েবে this is where the knock on everyone's door begins. The wise continue a few at once; The ‘Rupadhari’ is there to go around with, the ‘Gunadhari’ is there to do homework-assignments, and the money man is there to get married!
And at first everything feels good. Even if the boyfriend fails the test, it seems that being a good person is a big thing, career and so on! Again, when the lover is afraid to take to the streets, running after the CNG, it seems that my lover's thoughts are different, absolutely noble! But what happens after marriage? Nowadays, you don't even have to go to the wedding, it becomes 'polygamy'. Because once the initial fascination is gone, the colored glasses are no longer in the eyes. Then it seems that such a girlfriend is very happy, because her husband has two cars, they go abroad to travel. And after marriage, he becomes a husband, but he doesn't like to go after his wife's CNG. Not being able to cook for his wife, not being able to ride a rickshaw is no longer a pleasure, it seems like ‘bharang’ The one that Shakespeare didn't write, the father is in love with the naughty boy and the father is asking the daughter, mother, what do you see in that cow? The girl says, Dad, you see him once with my heart! So, Dad said, Ma-go, you look at him once with my brain!
In fact, the age is like! There is so much rush of hormones inside that it is the responsibility to keep oneself stable outside. Scientists have found that a neurotransmitter called dopamine stimulates the brain at this time. As a result, the body-mind creates unbridled joy, boundless inspiration, and extraordinary vitality. This explosion of youth gives you the power to do great things. Some people use this hormone for creative work, they become timeless talents, successful people. And what do we do? We spend this effort to attract the attention of another person, to satisfy our own work. At the time we are supposed to be worthy, we are living in a state of bewilderment and obscenity. I will leave home, I will leave home, I will give life, but I will not leave love. Hey, the state is not, how to leave the throne? At this time our situation is like 'No shield, no sword, Nidhiram Sardar'! That is why those who have risen so high in the world have started from a young age. Because the middle thirty is the age of fainting. And when it comes to preparation, we are busy imagining the happiness of our loved ones. Then when the thousand retreats, what is the chance even if you want to move forward?
And the most unfortunate are those who get involved in a physical relationship before marriage. I heard about a young woman who was on holiday in Cox's Bazar and met a boy. Whatever it is, it feels good to show one. The next three days are like a dream! How many words, how many songs, how much joy! Within three days, holding hands, walking on the sand. It was time to return after four days. The girl is happy. Today, the boy will surely tell her about love, about meeting back in Dhaka, or about marriage! But when he saw it, what he heard still haunted him. His handsome prince said to him at the last moment, "Give everyone such indulgence in just three days?"
Even if you don't believe in religion, at least you have to accept the real reason. In almost every case, those who are involved in the body suffer from infidelity after marriage. Plagued by suspicion. He once thought that because he loves me, he gave his all by showing his thumb to the custom called marriage. And what do you think today? He has no devotion to marriage, he does not follow the custom. What if he does something like that again? What sociality will hold him back?
Life needs everything. None except one. Just as material success will not make you happy, so love or biological desire is not everything in life. What matters is whether you are doing the right thing at the right time. And the decision is thinking about the future, or is it stepping on the wrong path out of emotion? Seeing everyone else ‘go out’ makes your hands and feet itch too, which means you are eating habudubu just by looking outside; Others are getting drunk, and you're having fun watching drunks! When this difference is clear to you, you will no longer be likely to slip. Nowadays it is very difficult to be good, because there are many temptations of bad around. And because it is difficult, but we do not get leaders in droves, we get one-and-a-half people who are ahead in life, they change the society. Will the decision be your guide, or will you live as a sheep in a flock?