The growth of a man doesn't lie in the hands of the parents Alone but rather,it should be a joined effort from both the parent and the child for it to bear fruits.
Most times are parents beat themselves up,do all they can and needed to do just to prepare a bright future for us or make us potential victors and conquerors of tomorrow's world.
What if a parent does all that they should have done to ensure the child becomes something useful but their effort get thwarted by the child's Inability to keep his or her head up and walk in the steps and path ?
Simply we cannot blame the parents in this case but tick this as being a lacuna on the child's part.
One has to sit up and better live life,following all steps obediently and diligently as he or she hopes to succeed in future.
One of the greatest joy of parents is seeing their child grow up to become something useful in future.
Especially one that they've put in and accorded the needed effort and the child plays his part well too.
If you cannot be the bread,if you cannot grow to become the backbone of the family,one that the family can look up to as the backbone,their Messiah;
It is just so important you become at least a joy and a consolation.
At least grow doing your best and be not you don't get to cause your family pain,you don't come to make them regret ever having you as a child.
Have you ever notice the satisfaction and joy,the radiant smile that appears on the faces of the parent whenever their child break through a phase in his or her life?
Seeing their children grow and become something useful is the wish of every parent for their and when they've put everything in place,when they've done their part,it is not for you to be com a curse to them but to diligently grow and at least come to be the I source of joy. One they can have consolation whenever they see.
