We may be as one when we love but it won't change the fact that we are still humans who are natured to be different from each other. We will not know everything about each other without asking. There are things I want to ask yet kept hidden in me.

1. How did you and your exes broke up?

I'm not sure where I heard it, but this is a type of question that should be avoided in a relationship. It is an unspoken rule not to bring up the exes. Even though the past is gone, I'm intrigued. I think I'll get to know him better if he answers this question; it's not like I'll ask him what he liked about his old girlfriends because I think that will complicate things and isn't necessary. I guess knowing how they broke up and the reason behind that can make me more assured and secured since sometimes his exes and girls with past romantic relationship with him is keeping in touch with him. I also want t know it for myself like I wanna know those things so I can prevent those from happening again to him. In my case, I don't have any ex and he happened to know everything about me and my past crushes. I wanna ask this so bad but I'm too afraid since I don't know if it's okay and if it'll complicate things with him even if I'm willing to be open-minded with it.

2. Do you love me the same from the start?

This question applies when both or one of you appears to change. People change, and actions that were once done to you may cease, which can lead to problematic overthinking because it may appear that your partner is lacking because he is not doing the same thing he was doing at the beginning of your relationship.

Actually, this should be answered more than words. Actions should match the words because you may receive an answer like, "I love you more now", then he'll end up treating you less than before. In this case believe their actions, it is the answer.

3. Where Am I Lacking?

This question is hard because it's natural to not want to hear negative things of you coming from your partner. However, it is necessary in a relationship. This question is part of communicating with each other and becoming the better persons you both deserve.

4. Did you ever think of breaking up with me for good?

It's so painful if I'll hear a yes. Well if it's a yes then better be careful for its reason. It should be fixed. Both of you must be better. Know your worth and where you should stand because this is a complicated topic where you should consider the both of you, him and you.

5. How is this relationship different than your previous relationship?

I wanna know my strengths as the current girlfriend. I wanna know if I'm doing better, if I'm making him happier but I'm really afraid to ask this because it's kind of opening a previous relationship as a topic.

6. Do you have anything you hate about me?

I'm so afraid, even typing this makes me cry. Like I have a part that he hates, but we can't help it, we all have a toxic side and not everything should be accepted.

7. How do you think of your way on treating me in every emotion you have?

I wonder how he see himself treating me, if it's the same on how I feel it. I'm actually bothered asking questions that requires too much time and explanation.

Aside from all of the questions, I'm looking forward on his actions towards me because there are questions that can just be answered by actions, Like how much he can prioritize me, how much will he has to be consistent with me, how much he's willing to listen to my feelings, thoughts and issues. Pay attention with these things.

Never change your real self though for something unnecessary. Do not lose yourself just to fit everything he wants to be you since you'll ask questions to your partner. Be observant too. Match the words and actions. Be better but stay real.