Family or Your Life!

Since morning to till now I was thinking what article should I write today ..So finally I get a topic to write up which is about “Family or Your Future”.. I think this is become necessary for me to write about this as daily in society this problem increase on like myth .. But how ? Well, usually in society you can see up some people who do not care their family though they are in bad situation while some people mad for help out the family .. This article will be about Middle class family ..So lets talk about this two kind of people:

Usually parents target become to make their all sons educated in same way but they do not know what will happen in future . So they use their all money to make their child educated and normally middle class family do not have much wealth which lead them later faced problem or fall into bad situation with their family member . But why they turn into bad situation ? Take us as example that Since our childhood to till now parents did hard work for us to make us educated as well try to make us good person .. For this reason they needed much money to carry out our educational expensive because you may know how hard to give educational expensive from a middle class family as there earning is not much which mostly part get used in food .. So left money usually is not enough to pay the school expensive or college expensive so what the parents do then ? They sold their land what is their only way to cultivate some thing and lead the family expensive but parents want to make their child educated so they do not think about land .. Anyhow we passed our education life and get into job but the problem start from now when we are into job because we are start to think like we have future too and for this we need to save our money while is it matter that we care our parents or not as anyhow they can lead their life .While others sons think that our parents make us educated with hard work and now we should not let them alone in bad situation .. Now let talk about the different between selfish son and good son ..

Selfish sons:

Usually selfish son use to store their 80% money for his future and use some funds to give parents which is the lowest one and by that money family expensive can not be carry on .. They do it for two reason which is his wife and other is society people .. Usually their wife told them to do not give money to your parents as she think the money gonna be waste only but she is ready to use the money for her parents which the sons do not understand .. On the other hand society people say do not give your money to your parents as they think this is also waste of time but they do not realized that if some day their son do the same with them .. Anyway, for this kind of effect the son more do not want to help the parents and even reduce the communicate .

Family lover sons:

Usually family caring sons do not care what other said about their parents but their main target become to change the position of family badly .. Such use his all salary to buy all the thing for family and take all the expensive to see their parents happy in every aspect .. Yes, people also say them that do not waste your money like this then the son answer only that if not we help them and can not see them happy then what we will do with money and so on positive thing.This is how he protect his mind from bad people hidden in our society ..

Anyway, now the main point is where ever we are and no matter in which position we are but we all should care our family because the happiness in family you will never get in other place .. Remember once parents gone from us then they will never be back again so we have still the time to help our family while make it strong in society first rather than our self strong because If our family can not be strong then people will not respect us for a moment which we need to understand too .. Also a important thing is that the more care we will do to our parents then the more care we will get back to from our sons which is natural true .. This is why do not make any mistake against your family .

If you ask me that did i faced this problem too?? Yes, i have faced the same problem too so that once boring to give money to family and went away to town while live their for 3 month.. But later i realized that i should not do this with my family as i went town because of neighbours who gave me bad idea about my future and responsibility . So if you wanna be happy then just follow yourself and hear what it want to do..

Have a nice day all!