Ever wonder why we wake up each day and want to immediately get moving to get what needed to be done, done? Ever wonder why we keep working hard at our jobs, relationships, dreams, etc despite the challenges we face in them on a daily basis? Ever wonder why you keep putting in more effort and working hard to ensure that you play your part in getting that thing that you truly desire? etc.... it simply because of this one word called HOPE.
Hope is the force that keeps us moving and pushing harder to ensuring that we play our part in the actualization of our desires. It's that inner voice that keeps telling us that we can make it or get it done if we push a little harder even in the midst of fierce difficulties. It's that drive in each of us that make us want to get up and continue after a terrible fall or bounce back after a hard punch that got us to the ground. Hope is the driving force for everything we do in life.
You're investing your time, emotions, resources and yourself completely in that relationship, job, family, friendship, dream, self-development, etc, because you're hopeful that it's going to get better or that it would help you in getting the sort of life that you desire. The hope for what you see yourself achieving or producing with such actions is the reason why you're investing everything you've got into it despite the challenge.
A hopeful man is a lively man and a lively man is always full of optimism. Show me a man that has no desire to pursue his/her desire in life and I will show you a man that has given up hope. Without hope, there's no life as the reason for living becomes inconsequential.
If you want to have any man at your beck and call find out what he/she truly desires and make him/her believe that you can give it to him/her and he/she would do whatever you ask him/her to do because you've given them a reason to live (hope). Life loses its usefulness without Hope and a man without hope is a already a living-dead.
So always ensure you rekindle your hope each day because that is the force that propels you into action and make you fight for the outcome that you desire in life. Keep keeping you hope alive and one day you'll have a tight embrace with your desire!