Do you ever find yourself comparing yourself to others?
Stop comparing yourself to others. When you compare yourself to what others have or how they are, you are dissatisfied with yourself.
When you compare yourself to others, you unconsciously believe that they are better than you and that you are inferior.
You're denying yourself of all the wonderful things you already have while condemning yourself for not having that one thing.
Comparisons take away your happiness and leave you with feelings of dissatisfaction, low self-esteem, and other negative emotions.
Hikers have a mantra that goes something like this: "Hike your own hike." This allows them to concentrate on their own path rather than gazing at the paths of others. Others may be able to reach the summit before you, but you will eventually make it there as well.
Don't compare your Chapter 1 to someone else's Chapter 20 as someone famously remarked. We should all learn to appreciate the voyage.
You are at the start of something wonderful; do not be discouraged by the success of others.
We mostly compare ourselves to what we see on social media; we use it to flaunt our so-called "luxuries," and we compare our condition to others' positive aspects without realizing the difficulties involved.
Don't be rushed by the Internet. Nobody is bragging about their shortcomings.
Most of the time, we make the wrong comparisons; we compare talents that we aren't strong at and conclude that we aren't good at anything.
In truth, we may have some skills that we are particularly good at. However, we become so engrossed in the battle to outperform them that we forget about our own abilities.
What you need to do is investigate yourself and identify a skill that you excel at so that you can improve.
A fish is unable to fly, and a bird is unable to swim. However, they are both the finest at what they do.
When you compare yourself to others, your ambitions become instinctively aligned with theirs.
But you've made a huge error here.
Maybe! You have the potential to become far better than them, or you may have the ability to attain greater goals than they do.
It's enlightening to figure out what motivates people and to learn from them. You should always listen to advice from experts, not to compare yourself to what they have, but to improve yourself.
Successful people compete with their own ambitions all of the time, whereas failure competes with the success of others.
Keep this in mind! “The Sun and the Moon are incomparable; they both shine when it is their time.”