Excellent gift for married brothers💌
We live in a world where domestic violence and divorce are on the rise. It is so serious that many men and women are losing their lives due to these reasons. There is still hope in such a bad situation to make married life peaceful, happy and stress free because Islam has taught us some important principles. Many couples fail to follow the principles of Islam because of the increase in domestic violence. Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala and the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) have given the necessary directions to make the house of the believer peaceful. Allah Ta'ala says in the Qur'an (4:34) that: "Men are the guardians of women, because Allah has made them superior to one another."
Be kind to your wife. Marriage is not a dictatorial relationship but a bond that is approved and blessed by Almighty Allah, so the result is nothing but happiness. In the Holy Qur'an (30:21), Allah the Almighty says about marriage: "And among His Signs is that He has created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find peace in them." And He has created love and kindness in you. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.
A virtuous wife is a great blessing from Allah for a man. We know from a few hadiths of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) how important a virtuous wife is and how important her role is.
Abu Umama Ra. It is narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: There is nothing better for a believer than a pious wife after attaining taqwa of Allaah. Because she obeys when her husband commands her, she (husband) is fascinated when she looks at him. If you swear by him, he fulfills it. Preserves herself (from wrongdoing) and the husband's wealth in the absence of the husband.
(Sunan Ibn Majah, Hadith: 1857)
Sauban Ra. It is narrated that when the verses related to gold and silver were revealed, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) was asked, “O Messenger of Allaah! What kind of goods will we store? He said, "Let each of you save a grateful heart, a remembrance of God, and a believing woman who will help him in the Hereafter."
(Musnad Ahmad, Hadith: 23101; Jame Tirmidhi, Hadith: 3094; Sunan Ibn Majah, Hadith: 1857)
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: The world is the object of momentary enjoyment. And the best wealth in the world is chaste women.
(Sahih Muslim, Hadith: 148; Musnad Ahmad, Hadith: 656; Sahih Ibn Hibban, Hadith: 4031)
When a woman becomes virtuous, her dignity increases so much that Allah's Beloved Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) has given her the title of the best wealth in the world. Needless to say, even though money is very important to our brothers, we often forget to take care of this precious resource.
When Adam (peace be upon him) was feeling lonely, Allah created the mother Eve (peace be upon him) from the bone of Adam's left rib. In this context, some scholars say that it is normal for women to have some feminine curves in their behavior. And that is what makes their beauty more specialized. However, because of this curvature, many brothers misbehave with their half-sisters, which is not desirable at all.
Let's imagine a common scene. A lot of times maybe your mood is off or you have a lot of stress all day. Suddenly your wife made a small wish to you that day, or she wanted to spend some time with you during your busy time. And omni you roared and threw all day frustration on him! Even then he listened to you in silence and apologized to you. What you don't know is that your partner is in a worse situation today than you are! But since you are the place of his absolute peace, he shares his feelings with you - just to see a smile on your face. Maybe he wanted to lighten the burden of your pain by saying two sweet words, putting your head on your shoulder and forgetting all the pain and suffering. He wanted your welfare, but you turned him into an "emotional dustbin" and threw all the negative emotions at you!
A virtuous wife always seeks the welfare of her husband. But our brothers need to understand that people are just wrong. Your wife may be wrong too. The wives of our Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) - the mother of the believers - were also wrong, but the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) never treated them badly, never spoke harshly. So shouldn't the men of the ummah also practice tolerance with their wives?
Be patient, brother. Forgive your wife's mistakes and make her your own. Give him some gifts from time to time. Whether it's his favorite object, or your time. But never abuse them, there is no question of blasphemy. To get the intercession of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) on the Day of Judgment, everyone will rush to him in groups. How will you stand in front of that great man that day? Where he said: The best of you is the one who is best to his wife.
(Tirmidhi-1 / 216-16; Ahmad-2/250, 462; Abu Dawood H. 482; Musa