Marriage and Marita relationship.

Marriage and Marital relationship

Marriage and Marital relationship by: Abdulrahman rahmat Akere.

Marrriage simply means, A union of two or more people that creates a family tie and carries legal, social, and/or religious. specifically) The union of two people of opposite sex, to the exclusion of all others.

To start with I believe in the ideology of "marriage is an institution that has to be respected, which as human he see marriage as a thing of joy naturally. In the sense that it a dream of most human not all human, because not all human believe in the ideology, view , perspective state early

Marriage or Marital relationship is a great topic to discuss in the community, society,state and country we found ourself because 50 percentage of people surrounded us wish to marry if not all

Have read many books, journal, magazine and articles on marriages and Marital relationship.

I have seen ,I have learnt , I have read ,I have witnessed and I have experience differennts issue and occurrence in marriage and Marital relationship.

There have witness differents cinero where by people get committed to each other or marriage for for different maybe because of beauty , money, or anything materialistic but in monent the thing is no longer in existence or disappear they disappear too or they break the vow .

There is another issue where by people United together or marriage not because they are ready to marriage but because they want to do what the society is doing,what their mate is doing which did not supposed to go that way , because it go fortune or unfortune for some of them .

There is circumstances of marriage just to pleases parent or people,brothers and sisters please do not get committed to each other just to satisfied your parents or people wish ,wait for your time and you shall be bless don't used an instance that works for your friend to judge your own life , maybe or not it may go worst than expected.

Don't getting committed to an everlasting contract or life contract because of friends, family, your parents or mate, they will stay with you in that contract just for days and you have your own entire life involved. Because if you rush in ,in unappropriate time surely you will rush out .

Or have you forget your marital vows " for better for worst " brother and sister I never told to stay in a marriage that is more worst than a prison because of marital vows " For better for worst"

I witnessed,seenand learnt that what works for first couple or couple A may or may not work for couple B .

Every marriage or marital relationship with it own unique formala , which is best advice to you that you should find your own unique formala that will work for you .

But in situation where by no formula works ,we should not try and fix things because not everything can be control, sometimes we just have to leave things the way they want to go and things we go normal or roll the way want to be and things we go well. As stated earlier that in a situation or circumstances where no formula works ,we should find a way to leave each other separately, honorably before things go out of hands .

And never stigmatized or criticize couple who separate each other because the never plan for than or it never in their plan , because we have read , seen and witness different couple we leave together upon things not works out for them all in name of " For better for worst.

Which led to domestic violence, advice been given is that we should leave separate to avoid domestic violence because domestic violence is never an option

Writes by Abdulrahman rahmat Akere is a 200 level student of history and international studies usmanu Danfodiyo University sokoto.