The root of the fall of arrogance and the price of good people is not, these two conflicting words are quite common in our society. We do not like those who always speak arrogantly, just as we do not like those who always speak politely to us. But is it not possible to be arrogant and humble again? What will happen then? More important than knowing how society views you is whether you are fully aware of the way you present yourself.
Not in words, good people have no value:
After reading the title and the first paragraph of the article, I hope you understand what is the topic of our discussion today. This article will show how an arrogant person and a humble person are seen by the society and how arrogance or humility should be presented in front of everyone.
Let's start with the good side first. That is, let us first come to the matter of the humble. It is better to be humble. Everyone likes such personalities, trusts them, wants to mingle with them. They are the role models of the ideal person of the society. As true as these words are, it is also true that extra modest people are deprived in many areas of society, or they have no importance to anyone. They again often feel insignificant. How humble a person is can only be understood by talking to him.

Everyone respects the humble:
Now I am highlighting two conversations in front of you. You may have noticed this kind of thing before, but never thought about it separately.
1st conversation:
> You have done a very good job. We are very happy with your work.
>> Nice to know the subject. I also enjoy working with you.
> But your colleagues have said a lot about you.
>> Is that so? The subject is really quite respectable.
Let's highlight the second conversation:
> But your work has been quite good. Your colleagues are also very happy to work with you.
>> Thanks. But I think I'm in a bad mood. They may not want to admit it.
> No, no. They are really happy to work with you. They want to work with you in the future.
>> I'm sure they will be forced to quit next time. I'm not that good myself.
Surely you can tell the difference between the two. When the first person was praised for his work, he gladly accepted it. He understands that he deserves his job. But in the case of the second person we see a different picture. Being overly modest, he repeatedly denies his own accomplishments. Our second person here is extra modest. In our society, it is usually the second person who is next in line to be humble. If you don't value yourself, why should others value you? You must have a sense of self-worth.
Be humble, so don't look down on yourself:
Now let's come to the arrogant ones. We already know what we mean by arrogance. Suppose you have achieved great success in a task, or someone close to you has succeeded in a task with your help. As a result, everyone is applauding you. Feelings like feeling good about yourself or seeing yourself as different from everyone else can work here. The work of this feeling is arrogance.
Now the question is what happens from the feeling of arrogance? Is arrogance good or bad? Arrogance can be of two kinds. One type is that which will create a temporary feeling of well-being in yourself as a result of any great success on your own or as a team. Maybe it's your good results in an exam or a big job for the country. As a result, the ego that will work in you is short-lived. Moments later that arrogance goes away. This arrogance is usually not expressed by anyone. Another way is to be proud of your work and tell everyone. Even if everyone knows about your success, go ahead and be proud of them. The second example of arrogance is the problem with the person.

There will be a lot of success in life. But don't always be arrogant about it
If a person is overly arrogant, a number of traits can be noticed. For example, always expecting respect from everyone, giving back any kind of advice, talking loudly to everyone, getting in a bad mood whenever someone gives any advice, looking down on others, etc. We have all seen such an arrogant person more or less. In fact, such arrogance is a kind of disease that forces you to accept the truth. You probably know that something went wrong. But he does not want to accept it in order to maintain his pride. None of us usually like such an arrogant person.
However, many see arrogance as a promotion of their own success. If you don't publicize what you have achieved, then why are you working so hard to achieve success? According to Daniel Snyzer, a professor at the University of Montreal, "If you weren't proud of your success, I wouldn't see your success." On the other hand, according to Leda Cosmedis, a professor at the University of California, arrogance is an element of society. We would not have got this modern social system if we did not have arrogance among the people. The tendency to outdo one another has played a major role here.
If you show respect to others, others will respect you too.
But the question is, once I gave an example, I said you can't be humble, then I said again you can't be arrogant. So what will actually happen? The best advice is to be moderate. You can be humble, but don't sell your self-respect by being humble. Maintain your self-esteem, understand what you deserve. And control yourself when you are arrogant. Highlight your success. However, make sure that it is not exaggerated. In order to present yourself well in front of everyone, you must learn to respect others. If you want to get respect from others, then it is your responsibility to respect others. So present yourself properly in front of everyone and respect the opinion of others without getting involved in the conflict of arrogance and modesty.
Great one