Birth-death-marriage These three issues remain unknown in human life. But people don't think about birth and death as much as they think about marriage. And different people have different thoughts about this marriage and married life. Some people see marriage as a positive thing and some people see it as negative. In our society, marriage is a recognized combination of a man's and a woman's relationship to meet one's natural emotional, physical or social needs. Some people's ideas are completely different. They think that marriage is a socially recognized chain of subjugation that enslaves people mentally by depriving them of their freedom. Marriage is a cause of fear for some, but a source of joy for others. It all depends on who is respectful and responsible in the marriage relationship. Married life depends on both husband and wife. After all, marriage is one of the most important part of our lives. But aren't you getting married for some irrational reason due to social or family pressure to start this important chapter of life?
It is wrong to get married for all those unreasonable reasons:
Due to some of the negative positive debates caused by man in the society, the issue of marriage has become a cause of more panic than encouragement for many boys and girls nowadays. There are also family pressures, criticism of people in the neighborhood, and various irrational social prejudices. With these negative thoughts in mind, boys and girls are sitting on the brink of marriage, their married life is getting worse instead of better. So today I will discuss some of the misconceptions, misconceptions, and the irrational reasons why one should not get married.
Most of the boys and girls have to get married without being mentally ready to please their parents in the face of family pressure. Which may not bring happy results in their personal lives.
Good groom for young girls
In almost all the families, the parents of the younger girls are busy getting married. Because their idea is to have a good and established pot for girls when they are young. Again, in a way that no good marriage can come later. With this in mind, they married girls at an early age to older boys.
Again, the son or the son's family also thinks that if a young wife is brought into the house, they will be obliged and a good wife. But in both cases there is a big difference in the age of the husband and wife do not match the mind, there is a distance. And in this way they can not be happy in family life. In fact, age does not matter in marriage. On the contrary, married couples have a better understanding of married life and are happier in their personal lives.
Criticism of neighbors:
Even if the girls do not rush to get married and prioritize their studies and career, it can be seen that the people in the neighborhood and the neighbors are criticizing them. It's getting old, why aren't they getting married, old and highly educated girls don't have good sons-in-law, they don't get married. These irrational criticisms are heard all the time. And with these ingrained thoughts in mind, the boy or the boy's family also prefers younger girls as wives to older girls.
Most of the boys want to get married financially, which makes it too late for many to get married. Even then, they have to face various questions and rumors from their neighbors. It is wise to get married without paying attention to what the neighbors say.
To be tempted by emotional or external beauty
Many boys and girls get married in a hurry without thinking about anything out of emotion and temptation. Or they may get involved in a wrong relationship and get married without thinking about their future. No boy or girl is good at this wrong decision due to extreme emotion. Therefore, it is not right to make any decision out of emotion.
The tendency towards money and luxury
In many families, it is seen that those who have good money, if they find a bride in that family, they get married without any other information. The boys and girls also agreed to live a luxurious life. But one thing to keep in mind, Ta
Money can not bring happiness in life, if there is no understanding and love between each other. If there is understanding, respect and love, the family is beautiful even with less money. If money is given extra importance, happiness and peace will never come in family life.
Comparison with friends
Friends have got big people, son-in-law or wife, they have expensive cars and houses, a lot of money, if you compare these, there will be no good result in your life except bad.
Wedding quality pageant
Nowadays, a lot of money is spent on various large-scale wedding ceremonies. The wedding ceremony has been organized by various people, so I have to do something like that. Marriage has become a tradition now. If you get married in the hope of a good and beautiful life, you can spend the rest of your life in happiness and peace.
Biological need
Physical needs are created in men and women when they are adults, which is very common. Marital relations bring legitimacy to social and religious physical relations. But if you get married with only the physical thing in mind, it will be an extreme mistake. Because physical infatuation is quickly cut off and many times due to various illnesses, in an accident both husband and wife can become physically disabled. So the love of the relationship is the key. So the decision to get married just to meet the demand should not be taken in any way.
In conclusion, it is very important to give up or give up any relationship, whether married or in love. Make the right decision to get married at the right time to make your life beautiful by pushing away all the irrational thoughts.
