@Rafd9828 27 August 2021 more from that month

My mind is made up! ***All these time I was thinking she had me in her heart and I kept fooling myself believing that we were heading to  somewhere so magical and beautiful together. I can't continue with this relationship anymore, my mind is made up!***

This was said with tears rolling down his cheek as he was complaining to me in the morning at the office. I could feel his pains and heartbreak as he was narrating the ordeal. Before I continue my story I will like to seek for your attention to this story that I am about to share with you. For proper clarification of purpose of writing this article, I am not using this medium to expose my friend's relationship challenges at the moment to the public but to seek for your opinion and also to serve as a lesson for us all to learn from and try to find a better way to build a healthy relationship with our spouse. ****THE FULL STORY**** This was a relationship of 7years with lots of sweet memories and beautiful experiences shared together which was  going on well with the both, until last night when every sweet story they have shared together changed to a nightmare. According to him, he said he never had the idea that the woman he was in love with was also dating another guy to the extend of getting pregnant for the said young man. He said that during the period they were together that she insisted that they must not have unprotected sex until they finally get married and he obliged with the decision and ever since they two kept to the decision not to have unprotected sexual intercourse. He was surprised and over whelmed by the sudden change of attitude been displayed by his girlfriend whom he has been in a long relationship and known her character for a long period of time. Out of curiosity he asked what was wrong with her and she replied, *****"Nothing is wrong with me, I am fine".***** After some minutes later, she ran out of the room to the toilet and started vomitting and there he became so worried about her condition and waited for her to come out of the toilet. when She came out, he asked her again what was wrong with her and she didn't respond to him again. After a while he stood trying to get answers to his question from his girlfriend, he left and went back to the sitting room. The girlfriend went to the bedroom and started making calls and when he waited at the sitting room and couldn't see his girlfriend coming out to the sitting room, he went back to the bedroom and when he was about opening the door to enter the bedroom he overheard the girlfriend in a call conversation explaining to the person that she was pregnant and she does not know how to explain it to her boyfriend who has been on her neck to know why she has been vomitting and acting strange. When he heard what his girlfriend was explaining to the unknown person on the phone, he immediately opened the door and his girlfriend quickly dropped the call and pretended that she was fine. He asked her again to tell him the truth what was going on the third time and she continued to cover up her story and pretended as if nothing happened. He couldn't sleep all through the night because of what he heard on the phone been said by the woman he has loved with all his heart. He was wondering what to do because he couldn't believe what he heard, So managed to sleep and when he woke up from sleep in the morning, he quickly dressed up and left the house to the office without talking to the girlfriend becausr he was in pain and angry. When I came to office and saw his mood and how he has been acting, I asked him what was the problem, there, he started crying and told me this story. After he narrated the story to me, I was silent because I don't know what to tell him at that moment and that's why I bring this to this platform for your opinions and advice. At the moment is has concluded that he will not continue with the relationship because of what he heard. Please I need your advice and contribution. ***Thanks for reading my article 🙏 Rafd9828***