Life often offers a person surprises: pleasant and unpleasant. Some have more enjoyable things, others are not. Sometimes people live for years in adversity and stress, and they are not invented, but they are very real: an endless chain of diseases, the death of relatives, poverty, family disintegration, and even homelessness. These problems simply kill the person from within, destroy his soul and lead him further and further from union with the Absolute. The worst thing about this situation is that many are not standing up (and being comprehensible), dealing with the entire world and distancing themselves from the source from which we are all left. It is very difficult not to be offended when the toughest trials fall on you. While others live and enjoy life to the fullest. How do I explain to a normal person trying to live according to his conscience that all problems come from himself, and people have no relationship with them. You must always understand that the life situation you are in today is the result of your actions or, on the contrary, a failure to act in the past. It's pointless to feel offended by this. A person always has a choice: either to be humiliated or not, to help someone, to respond badly to evil or not, to choose that particular person or another as his wife or wife, or to agree to a lowly wage job, He takes responsibility for his life and you create yourself anew according to your ideas about your life.
Most of the time, the person chooses not to do anything, because it is scary, and he does not know what to expect. We are not used to freedom. Especially the older generation, who grew up in the Soviet Union and got used to the fact that everything in life is planned and understood. At that time, a good education guaranteed good employment and earnings, but now it is not. Many forty-year-olds were overwhelmed by the well-educated and unable to find a place in life, which led to a series of suicides and mental disorders in the 1990s. Thanks to 'perestroika, we have lost several generations of' children, adolescents, and young psychologists' who simply could not adapt. More steady, he survived and rose, able to fight for his “place in the sun” both physically and mentally. However, they only represent 10% of the population. They are the ones who occupy places in the Forbes lists
The hardest thing of our time is the “psychosocial youth” - these are people, who often have a lot of higher education, are very smart and comprehensively educated. Unfortunately, they get used to thinking a lot, but they don't. This is why they are at very low levels of society, and sometimes even below the poverty line, if they are not able to "sell" their intelligence appropriately. In general, most people act as if they have 500 years to live, as Bill Gates said at the time.