Stop Blaming Circumstances. Sometimes we just aren't right in making decisions

When we condition us with good or bad things, we often still blame the situation or other people, even blame ourselves with various parables. Even though something good happens, there are often regrets, if at that time I was like that, maybe today things would be much better. Well, there is no word of gratitude in it even though good things have happened. Can you imagine what if something bad happened? Must be depression, stress, maybe even regret for a long time right?

Actually what is happening at this time is the actions and decisions we took in the previous days. There is no need to complain by blaming anyone or blaming circumstances. Just accept what has happened, make it a lesson in your life. Later if the same thing happens again, then you will remember the mistakes you have made so that you no longer make the wrong decisions.

Circumstances and people are a bond that will never be broken. By being conditioned in such a way, humans also have several choices to make decisions. The decisions you take when you are conditioned to something, that's what you will learn later. So make sure that when you are conditioned in something, you are not rash, either too excited or too upset. Thinking carefully is the only way that can accompany you when controlling your life.

It's hard to control yourself, but hard doesn't mean you can't, right? Especially when it comes to your own way of life. If you don't make decisions for your life carefully, who else will represent you?

Don't blame injustice because nothing in this world is fair, there are only decisions you make. If you have tried your best but the results are still not satisfactory, then self-correction should be done, not blaming the situation or anyone.

Even after you have corrected yourself and you have received an answer for the dissatisfaction you have received, there is also no need to be sad. You can start over in a different way. No effort betrays results. What you do, that's what you will reap in the future, whatever the conditions and whoever you are.

Don't make excuses for time or age. Life is indeed measured by time and age, but not for you to make excuses for it. One's success is not measured by it. How many people are older but their maturity level is still below average? That's a lot right? You know why?

Maybe one of them is because they blame the situation and other people, even themselves. They still do not realize that the control of a person's life is in himself. Even though they are aware, maybe they can also misinterpret it by blaming themselves, not by accepting and making lessons.

From now on, let's learn together not to blame circumstances, other people, or even ourselves for something conditioned. Remember that the only person in control of your life is you. Once you make the wrong decision in acting or speaking, then you will also bear the risk yourself, where maybe the risk will have an impact on other people in your environment. Always be alert...